By
Toby D. Goldsmith, M.D., and Maria Vera, Ph.D.
22 Nov 2000
Abusive relationships have a powerful psychological impact on the victims. Victims of an abusive relationship may experience some of the following emotions and behaviors:
Agitation, anxiety and chronic apprehension
Constant state of alertness that makes it difficult for them to relax or sleep
A sense of hopelessness, helplessness or despair because the victim believes they will never escape the control of their abuser
Fear that one cannot protect oneself or one's children. This person will turn down the assistance offered by relatives, friends or professionals.
Feeling paralyzed by fear to make decisions or protect oneself
A belief that one deserves the abuse
A belief that one is responsible for the abuse
Flashbacks, recurrent thoughts and memories of the violence and nightmares of the violence
Emotional reactions to reminders of domestic violence
Physical Symptoms
Victims of domestic violence can also have physical symptoms that aren't directly caused by physical abuse. These symptoms are instead caused by the constant stress and tension of living in an abusive relationship. These symptoms include:
Headaches
Asthma
Gastrointestinal symptoms
Chronic pain
Restless sleep or inability to sleep
Genital soreness
Pelvic pain
Back pain
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By John M. Grohol, Psy.D.
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