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I’m an Only Child. So What?

Tuesday, October 6th, 2009
I do not have any brothers or sisters. Yes, I am an only child. So what? It is okay with me that I don’t have brothers or sisters, so why is it often not ...

When Your Kids Disappoint You

Tuesday, September 1st, 2009
As summer winds down, many parents longingly await school, yet dread the frustration and disappointment they feel regarding their kids and the resulting guilt over these reactions. Parents may have a clear vision of their children’s ...

10 Reasons You Don’t Listen

Thursday, July 2nd, 2009
We're all guilty of not listening at one point or another in our lives. We tune others out while we're watching the TV, or trying to concentrate on something we're reading. Nowadays, we try hard ...

The Psychology of Mental Toughness

Thursday, July 2nd, 2009
People often seek therapy when they feel overwhelmed, out of control, or unable to take positive action. They think they come to figure things out and may not know that psychotherapy can make you stronger. ...

Three Men, One Month: The Match.com Journey Continues

Wednesday, May 13th, 2009
I have now been on roughly a month’s worth of Match.com dates. None of them was completely awful, but some were definitely better than others. Date One: The Liquid Hater I started with a man I ...

Seeing by Starlight: Celebrity Obsession

Wednesday, May 13th, 2009
A few years ago, Britney Spears and her entourage swept through my boss's office. As she sashayed past, I blushed and stammered and leaned over my desk to shake her hand. She looked right ...

Know Thyself: The Role of Awareness in Psychotherapy

Monday, April 6th, 2009
Awareness Is Ever-Present To be aware is to witness. And our witnessing selves are always there when we dream, in daily activities, when feeling emotions, and in states of excitement or distress. We are constantly aware, ...

Giving Ourselves Permission To Feel Again

Monday, April 6th, 2009
"One's suffering disappears when one lets oneself go, when one yields -- even to sadness" -Antoine de Saint-Exupéry Imagine Main Street if we didn't rein in our emotions. Rude comments tossed at a passersby who fails to ...

Just Let Go of Perfectionism

Friday, April 3rd, 2009
"The important work of moving the world forward does not wait to be done by perfect men." -George Eliot We are constantly bombarded with perfection. Adonis on the cover of Men's Health and Helen on the cover ...

Lessons from American Idol: It’s Character that Counts

Wednesday, February 11th, 2009
Okay. I admit it. I'm an American Idol fan. I get an endless amount of grief for it in my office lunchroom: "Don't you know it's fixed?" "Aren't you bored with Simon's schtick? Paula's spacy ...

The Language of Emotional Intelligence

Monday, February 2nd, 2009
If you're reading this website, you've probably heard the term emotional intelligence before, but you may not know exactly what it is. And even if you know what it is, you may not really have ...

TCBY: A Minor Breakup

Wednesday, January 21st, 2009
Last night I got TCBY’d: A man I had been dating asked me to return my shirts. Yes, TCBY’d is not a real word or term. It’s something my friends and I use to ...

Happy at Last: The Thinking Person’s Guide to Finding Joy

Tuesday, December 16th, 2008
Too many pop psychology books today pretend that they have all of the answers, or try and wow you with their insights by tying together esoteric small studies done on college students and suggest such ...

Strategies to Reduce Perfectionism

Tuesday, November 18th, 2008
Here's how to reduce perfectionistic tendencies, according to Martin Antony, Ph.D., co-author of When Perfect Isn't Good Enough: Strategies for Coping with Perfectionism, who describes these strategies in his book. Challenge your thoughts. "Rather ...

Click or Clique: Positive and Negative Teen Social Groups

Wednesday, October 22nd, 2008
It's perfectly normal: Preteens and teens group together and often hang on tight. As they push for increasing independence from their parents, they turn to their peers for guidance, acceptance, and security. Safety, for those ...

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