"But everyone else is doing it."
I do remember saying it often when I was a teen, although I can’t for the life of me remember about what. More vivid is my mother’s refrain: “If ...
Parents often hear the words "parental training" and think, "Oh great, like you could teach me something that'll control my out-of-control attention deficit disorder child!" And yet research has shown that children with attention deficit ...
While learning of the diagnosis of attention deficit disorder (ADHD) makes many parents feel relief, the real work begins in finding the right treatment approach for a child or teen diagnosed with ADHD.
If the ...
The precursor of the mirror is the mother's face. D.W. Winnicott, Playing and Reality, 1971
Thirteen years ago I gave birth to my very much wanted third child. Eight months later I ended up in ...
It's coming up to that time of year in many places of the country tornado season. The southern states have already experienced some storms; Oklahoma was struck by a deadly twister just before ...
Everyone worries about things from time to time: the economy, an ill parent, safety concerns. For parents, it seems to come along even more naturally. There are endless things that a mom or dad could ...
The word of the year seems to be “entitled.” Get a group of older adults together and you’ll hear a fair amount of grumbling about the self-centeredness and selfishness of the 20- and 30-somethings. They’re ...
Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) is the most commonly diagnosed disorder in children and teens. Its hallmark symptoms include hyperactivity, inattention and impulsivity. Children have difficulty concentrating, following instructions, sitting still and interacting with others. ...
It is already known that caregivers' attitude and behavior is important in determining whether a woman has a satisfying experience of childbirth. But our knowledge about memory of labor pain is still limited. Is satisfaction ...
Recent evidence disputes the theory that head injury early in life increases the risk of developing attention deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD).
There is a well-established link between ADHD and traumatic head injury, with some experts suggesting that ...
"How did you know your parents loved each other?" Looking for material for a Valentine's Day story, I took a poll of adult friends as we sat around waiting for our kids to get out ...
The sullen 12-year-old girl who is curled up in the corner of my office couch is on a roll:
“My parents’ divorce ruined everything. They make me do things they would never do. I ...
My 10-year-old son was bullied recently. He was told that he was an “embarrassment.” He was told to “shut up.” He was yelled at and scolded in a tone of voice tinged with disgust and ...
When divorce is an obvious solution to a disastrous marriage, it’s easier for kids to understand. If either parent is abusive to partner and kids, an addict whose habit has thrown the family into poverty, ...
“It’s January 19 and I still haven’t come up with a New Year’s resolution.” My friend and colleague is musing over her coffee. “Somehow I feel I’m not doing my part. ...