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My last blog’s topic was about the varied reasons people have sex, which led a reader to ask me: “When is the right time to start a sexual relationship?”

This is a difficult question to answer because there isn’t a set recipe of “right or wrong” timing. This decision depends entirely on each individual’s own values, interests and attractions.

It is actually easier to tell you when starting a sexual relationship is likely to lead you to difficult consequences, rather than when it is okay to go forward.

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Considering Having Sex? 10 Factors to Consider…and Maybe Say No

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  1. Can I tell you how refreshing it is to have someone at least hint to possibility that folks still wait until things are serious, even until marriage, to have sex? It doesn’t mean they are prudes, or frigid or no fun, it just means they make promises and keep them.

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