5 Tips for Communicating Assertively Without Being Passive AggressiveAll of us are passive-aggressive. That is, we use a mild form of passive-aggressiveness: “saying yes when we mean no,” according to psychotherapist Andrea Brandt, Ph.D, M.F.T.

However, some of us use passive aggression on a regular basis.

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5 Tips for Communicating Assertively without Being Passive-Aggressive

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  1. Thanks for writing this! I need to learn to be more assertive, or assertive at all really. I’m tired of being steamrolled over all the time.

  2. Thank you, I needed to read this.

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