Communication StylesMany couples feel that their arguments never get resolved because one partner seems to find the confrontation easy while the other partner wants to avoid it.

“We just cannot communicate” is a common statement made in couples therapy. This communication pattern is very common:

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Different Communication Styles Don’t Have To Wreak Havoc on Your Marriage

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  1. This is a great post. I caught myself nodding while reading it. I’m in an LDR with my partner. We’ve been seeing each other for 6 years of which the last two have been long distance. I’m the “hot” type, and he “the cold.” How do couples separated by physical distance find a middle ground to work on communication issues? Even if there is something I want to talk about right away, it is not always possible because of the distance. It can be quite frustrating!

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