Politics, Tragedy, and the Unfriending of America The election, the 100-year storm with the deceptively cutesy moniker, an (alleged) war on Christmas, and now, yet another tragic mass shooting have further heightened the intensity of perceived alliances and divisions within e-friendships. It has led this temperamentally wary shrink to wonder, “who is ‘e-friend’ vs. -foe?’”

Our postings in the ether expose our true feelings to an extent far beyond what we might normally reveal. Facebook (and other social media) leads us to disclose things that we might not otherwise share freely. It creates a paradoxical sense of privacy that dissipates as soon as we click “post.”

Although postings enable us to connect with others we might not otherwise, highly charged public events incite us to share sentiments that are intensely emotional and potentially very divisive.

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Politics, Tragedy, and the Unfriending of America

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  1. Your journey through Facebook sounds familiar. I spent this morning exchanges Merry Christmas and looking at photos from presents, to food to friends and their families. I actually had a good time. The community does feel real when you are a part of it. >> I didn’t quite make the connection with your title, however, but that is probably just me.

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