This guest article from YourTango was written by Dawn Michael.
He picks up the phone, gives his credit card information and begins to talk to her. His intentions are to get a quick release, and then go about his business.
As he begins to talk to her, she becomes more interesting. Her words are not just sexual but make him feel connected. The phone calls then become more regular and lengthy; some calls don’t even involve him having a sexual release. He finds himself connecting with her, maybe even wanting to see her.
This man may be any woman’s husband who has lost a connection with his wife. He may still be having sex with his wife, but has lost the intimacy involved, the love, understanding and caring.