The traditional view of divorce is one of tragedy and trauma. We lean toward visions of hostile words, seasoned with accusations, rage and fear, flying through the air. Rarely does the thought of divorce align with anything positive or peaceful.

But what if that could change? What if couples could find a path that led them out from the pain to a realm where new possibilities could emerge? What if elements of understanding, apology, acknowledgment, healing, forgiveness and completion were the end result?

What if they could replace bitterness, betrayal and hopelessness with a sense of love and freedom to embrace the future?

Like anything in life, it’s a matter of perspective and choice. For those who opt for a TD (Transformational Divorce), the choice is to complete the past in order to create a new future.

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