This guest article from YourTango was written by Gerti Schoen.
Introverts often have a more difficult time with social interactions than others. This is especially true when it comes to dating. Just talking with other people can be a challenge for many introverts. It’s no surprise then that the thought of actually talking to someone who might be a future partner can send an introvert into a tailspin.
Here are a few quick dating tips for the introvert that may help.
1. Fess up.
Don’t pretend to be a social butterfly. There is nothing wrong with being introverted. Tell your date if you are someone who seeks friendship first or needs time to fall in love. You may scare away a few flakes, and instead attract people who will really appreciate you.
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There is some simple yet sound advice and words of wisdom in this article. Your 5 tips will help to guide the relationship in a healthy and honest direction. What is important to remember is knowing yourself and what you want and just be yourself. I’m looking forward to the next post. Thanks for the insight.
I really enjoyed your article, short, simple, to the point and practical. I read many articles about introverts and they often offer advice like “step out there” or “act extroverted”, so your number 1 is awesome! We can just be ourselves and not pretend.
Excellent, just awesome points! Especially #3, I can’t stand smooth talkers. I guess it’s easy for smooth talkers to take advantage of a nice introvert like myself, ha!