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3 Fascinating Facts About Dreams

By Margarita Tartakovsky, M.S.
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3 Fascinating Facts About Dreams“The biggest myth about dreams is that they are frivolous manifestations reflecting basic occurrences of our daily experiences,” said Chicago psychotherapist Jeffrey Sumber.

But dreams are actually an important part of self-discovery. (More on that later.) Below are a few fascinating facts and findings about dreams.

1. People with disabilities dream as though they don’t have them.

The following is an excerpt from a person who participated in a dream study:

“I was supposed to and wanted to sing in the choir. I see a stage on which some singers, male and female, are standing… I am asked if I want to sing with them. ‘Me?’ I ask, ‘I don’t know if I am good enough.’ And already I am standing on the stage with the choir. In the front row, I see my mother, she is smiling at me… It is a nice feeling to be on stage and able to chant.”

What’s particularly curious about this dream is that the dreamer was born deaf and doesn’t speak. Recently, two studies published in the journal Consciousness and Cognition have found that people with disabilities still dream as though their impairments don’t exist.

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3 Fascinating Facts About Dreams

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  1. How is the third one a fact?
    There isn’t even any mention of evidence.

  2. What’s the meaning of flying dreams or dreaming of searching a house and finding more rooms than initially expected ?

    • I too wonder about the flying dreams. I have them and really feel like i am flying. I also struggle sometimes, as sometimes my flying muscles are weak, it is really strange. Maybe you are talking of flying on an airplane? But for me, it is just me flying.

      • Flying dreams what I’ve noticed from my own dreams and what a lot of dream analysts say is astral projection.

    • I find I have flying dreams when I am really getting on with my life. come to think about it I haven’t had one for ages! I’ve had flying dreams that were also lucid dreams–I knew I was dreaming–but when I realised i was dreaming I started to fall and woke up.

      I think searching a house and finding more rooms that you knew were there is that you are starting to discover that there is more to you than you knew. Have you started to learn something new? work in a different way or area? start a new business or venture? started to read a new area? Or started therapy? Or something like that? If so the dream is encouraging you.

  3. Old people grew up with black and white tv

  4. I don’t remember color OR black and white in my dreams. For me they are experiential events where color is irrelevant. What does that say? I am an painter.

  5. I enjoyed the article and I like to make people laugh. I am 48 years old, I go from dreaming I’m living in a desert to living in an igloo. I still wonder what THAT’S all about. It’s amazing I can even remember a dream after being in a 500mg Seroquel Coma. It’s just Bi Polar Humor, everybody stay on your medication even if your not going through MEANapause.

  6. Do you have research to back up the third idea?

    • Sure, see for example:

      Mageo, JM. (2006). Figurative Dream Analysis and U.S. Traveling Identities. Ethos, 34, 456-487.

      de M’Uzan, M. (2000). Dream and identity. Canadian Journal of Psychoanalysis, Vol 8, 131-146.

      Dimidjian, VJ. (1983). Seeing me, being me, becoming the me I want to be: The import of the dream in identity formation during women’s early adult years. Women & Therapy, 2, 33-48.

      Sandler, J. (1976). Dreams, unconscious fantasies and ‘identity of perception.’ The International Journal of Psychoanalysis, 3, 33-42.

  7. I have all kinds of dreams. But there is one that has occurred several times.It’s getting lost without finding my way. Another subject.

    I’ve had 2 out of body experiences that were very real to me. They occurred several years ago and haven’t had one since. Does anyone have a clue about this?

  8. The tone of my dreams is usually completely determined by my anxiety at the moment, usually regarding either 1) my relationship or 2) my job. I have had two serious relationships in life, and during the entire course of the first one I had nightmares all the time about him yelling at me, cheating on me, etc. Even though we were “fine” in person, it seems I was harboring all of my negative “instincts” about the relationship and they were coming out subconsiously.

    I know he thinks it’s silly, but I often tell my boyfriend now (serious relationship #2) that I’m KNOW I’m happy because I’ve never had a nightmare about him. In fact, as someone that has usually had nightmares most of my life (I think it’s because I’m generally high-anxiety), I rarely have had any nightmares since we’ve been together. I think it’s a sign from my subconscious or intuition that we’re a good pair, and sleeping together has a calming effect on me.

    The moral is, my dreams are less about the objects (“oats”) and more about the emotions that I’m feeling about my life and relationships that then get played out that evening, subconsciously.

    Great article, as always! Thank you!

  9. Old people also lived life in color, lol. I find t.v. watching irrelevant to the subject matter. What color would someone dream prior to t.v.? I personally find black and white movies kind of depressing regardless of it’s content. It feels weird because real life does not lack color so the movie reveals a strict, dissident contrast of unnecessary depletion.

  10. hi my name is amy an 8th grader in california. i am doing a research project and my topic is about dreams. one of the critera is to inerview someone.i was wondering if you could answer some questions for me about dreams. thanks
    1.can you tell me what you think is important about dreams?
    2.how did you first come to learn about or got interested in dreams?
    3. what types of sources can i use to get more info?
    4.ive heard a lot of theories on why humans dream. is there a specific theory that is most acurrate or can be proven?
    5. how come humans dream mostly during REM?
    6. why are some dreams realistic while others are completely impossible to happen in real life?
    7. do dreams help you with your memory is so how?
    8. can dreams be linked to daily life?
    9. why do humans get nightmares and night terro, what causes them?
    10. how often do we dream?

  11. A lot of my dreams consist of my ability to lead others, to talk with others without any social phobias, and following my bliss which is to be a thespian/comedian.

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