It’s time for psychotherapy to stop beating around in the bushes and get a new marketing campaign going for itself. It’s time for organizations like our own, the American Psychological Association, the American Counseling Association and others to join together and have people understand a simple, basic message — 12 weeks is all most people need to start feeling better when faced with a mental health issue.
Psychotherapy still gets a bad rap because of a basic misunderstanding of the process it entails, or prejudice around thinking that if you need to see a therapist, something’s really wrong with you.
It doesn’t have to be this way. Just like the endless pharmaceutical commercials on TV for antidepressants and ADHD medications, psychotherapy could be reminding people that it’s not like you’re making a forever-commitment to Freudian analysis. It’s simply 12 weeks to feeling better.
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Hi John:
In fact, people often feel better just making the appointment to see a therapist who they believe will be able to help them.
I love this marketing campaign and think all of us therapists in the trenches should get onboard, whether we take insurance or not, whether we “believe” in the efficacy of long term therapy or not, no matter our model, because the truth is – many people are very concerned about the costs of a long term commitment (both financial, time, and emotional effort) but would be much more willing to make a medium or shorter term commitment to their healing.
At the end of the 12 weeks, who knows? Some clients will leave and be better having done a major or minor piece of work, some will not even need the 12 weeks and others will want to stick around longer for all sorts of reasons.
But we therapists should start de-mystifying the process and assuring our potential clients that it works and it doesn’t have to take forever or bankrupt you.
As to finding the right therapist, the tried and true is always what I suggest – get a referral from a trusted friend or family member. Even with that, it’s trial and error, but what else can it be? Therapy is a “relationship that heals” as Yalom says and in finding any relationship, there’s trial and error. We aren’t automatons any more than our clients are, so there’s bound to be some fit issues along the way. As all therapists, I’ve been “hired” and “fired” for the most profound and sometimes silly reasons, but I trust that the clients are doing what is best for themselves on some level. As long as I support their decision, I have found they even will refer others to me even if we weren’t such a great fit to work together.
So I’m onboard and I have only one question – where do I sign up?
Thanks again!
If you really want this to work, here is a suggestion.
1. Establish a “free” screening service to spend perhaps an hour with the prospective patient to determine who may be the optimal therapist for that patient. Money’s actually paid for the screening would be a credit toward the first regularly scheduled therapy session.
2. For the patient being screened, the screener would give an approximate length for the therapy and what it might accomplish. In the past several years I had a therapist try to get me to sign up for three years of psychotherapy yet he was unable to tell my why I should have it or what it might accomplish.