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Best of Our Blogs: June 7, 2011

By Brandi-Ann Uyemura, M.A.
Associate Editor

Life lessons come in unexpected packages.

Take yesterday, for example. I was peering into my nightly stack of “I’m-going-to-eventually-get-to-these-books,” when I came across the yellow covered copy of Frances Hodgson Burnett’s The Secret Garden. The only reason why I hadn’t finished yet, is that I did what I normally do when I’m infatuated with a book. I read it slowly as if each word were being analyzed with a microscope. I would ponder over an author’s choice of one word over another, for example or got lost in why a particular passage was so magical, so descriptively perfect.

When I picked up where I left off, I was enchanted by the beginning of the last chapter, which started with this:

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“[M]ere thoughts are as powerful as electric batteries – as good for one as sunlight is, or as bad for one as poison. To let a sad thought or a bad one get into your mind is as dangerous as letting a scarlet fever germ get into your body. If you let it stay there after it has got in you may never get over it as long as you live.”

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This may seem a little simplistic to you. It is a children’s book after all. But for me, I was struck by how profound it was-that it captured how often we allow our negative perceptions become truths and our fears and unknowns become reality.

Just something to think about this week as I leave you with another round of top posts.

How Music Can Improve Your Mood

(Adventures in Positive Psychology) – Having a bad day? In a crummy mood? Turn up the positivity with mood-boosting music. A post that expresses the potential positivity of your favorite tunes.

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Best of Our Blogs: June 7, 2011

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  1. The only way to world peace and at no cost to anyone for guns or bombs is a simple one.Look to your friends strangers everyone and join hands to commit to conserve energy through out the world and it will crush the cartels the wager war on other nations for power over the human race for the earths energy that the entire human race needs to live.Come together people stop this and for once in your life know what its like to be free and in Peace throughout the World.

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