It happened to me the other day. I was admiring a fellow writer’s accomplishment while someone else was admiring my own. The funny thing is that we were both shocked by the compliment. I guess I could dish it, but was surprised that I couldn’t take it. Why is it that we have such an easy time seeing the beauty, hard work and achievement in another, but neglect to see those same things in ourselves?

The impact over time of finding the silver lining in our partner’s, friend’s, co-worker’s lives, but focusing on only the shadows of our own lives can make us jealous, bitter, resentful and depressed. It can reinforce negative thoughts and beliefs about what is possible for us instead of motivating us to take risks, play big instead of small and follow our dreams. One of our post this week is all about focusing on our own path towards success. It’s a good one! And so is our other top posts of the week. Enjoy!

Transplanting Tall Poppy Syndrome: Overcoming Fear of Judgement

(The Therapist Within) – Is there something or someone holding you back from success? Maybe it’s fear. And maybe the person preventing you from your dreams is yourself. How will you know? Read this post. It’s filled with thought-provoking questions that may help you get back on the right track.

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