According to research published in the August issue of Archives of Sexual Behavior in a survey of 400 students and volunteers, the following top 20 reasons were given by women as to why they have had sex in the past:

1. I was attracted to the …

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Top 20 Reasons Women Said They Have Sex

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  1. These ladies are letting themselves in for a real let down. What they often do not realise is that there is a big differrence to what turns men and women on. Men are usually aroused visually as oppossed to women who are usually aroused emotionally. Women will invariably find themselves feeling unfulfilled sexually if they are not having sex to express AND recieve love. The guys are not too knowledgable about what makes women tick nor are they interested when they find out the time they will have to commit among other things, such as fidelity!
    Their top twenty reasons may wind up becoming their top twenty bummers. The 20 top “If only I knew thens” I personally feel sorry for them irregardless of their marital status with their significant other.

  2. These ladies are letting themselves in for a real let down. What they often do not realise is that there is a big differrence to what turns men and women on. Men are usually aroused visually as oppossed to women who are usually aroused emotionally. Women will invariably find themselves feeling unfulfilled sexually if they are not having sex to express AND recieve love. The guys are not too knowledgable about what makes women tick nor are they interested when they find out the time they will have to commit among other things, such as fidelity!
    Their top twenty reasons may wind up becoming their top twenty bummers. The 20 top “If only I knew thens” I personally feel sorry for them irregardless of their marital status with their significant other.

  3. Wow, going over both of the lists, and the longer one, it made me realize that the motivation behind having sex isn’t that different for the sexes.
    We may operate differently when it comes to sex, but the reasons /why/ aren’t all that different.

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