Addiction

Robin Williams: A Terribly Real Thing in a Terribly False World

“You,” he said, “are a terribly real thing in a terribly false world, and that, I believe, is why you are in so much pain.”

That quote belongs in Emilie Autumn’s psychological thriller novel, The Asylum for Wayward Victorian Girls.

It’s the essence, I think, of Robin Williams. He was so real -- so passionate, brilliant, empathetic, brave, and sensitive -- letting us see the exquisite beauty that is a byproduct of living with your heart exposed to the world.
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Love Crimes: When the Abused Believe It’s for Their Own Good

One of the most nurturing, compassionate women I know is also an abused wife who once shared her biggest regret. Did she regret staying with her abusive husband? No. The most regretful day of her life was when she phoned the police after he physically assaulted her yet again.

“I ruined his life,” she said. “It’s the biggest mistake I ever made.” Immune to any reason, she pressed on, blaming herself for the “humiliation he had to endure” at anger management classes, the draining of her family’s resources on lawyer fees and the indelible black mark “she caused” on his otherwise spotless veneer.

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Antidepressant

Sidestepping Depression Stigma

According to the mental health charity Mind, one in four people will experience a mental health problem each year. These figures aren’t too dissimilar to those for cancer; it is estimated that more than one in three people will be diagnosed with cancer at some point in their lives.

Despite these statistics regarding the prevalence of mental health issues, they haven’t been addressed with nearly the same attention or support as physical illnesses. This could have to do with the stigma surrounding mental health.

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Bipolar

Amanda Bynes: When Celebrity Mental Health Turns Insensitive Gossip

The 28-year-old actress Amanda Bynes recently told In Touch Weekly that there is a microchip in her brain that allows other people to read her thoughts.

"I want a dollar a day from every person who (is) reading my mind,” Bynes said.

Now TMZ reports that she was allegedly "going full Winona Ryder" -- shoplifting from Barneys on Madison Avenue.

"She really should wrap her head in a seven-pound ball of aluminum foil," wrote Tony Hicks of San Jose Mercury News, later adding, "Sounds like someone's parents need to fly to New York and get her back to the doctor, before none of this is funny anymore."

I'm guessing the tabloids are just following her around day and night waiting for her to do something kooky. Personally, I don't find any of it "funny" at all.
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ADHD and ADD

Psychology Around the Net: September 27, 2014


Need caught up on this week's psychology-related news around the 'net? From Alanis Morissette's view on happiness to what NOT to say to someone with bipolar disorder, we've got you covered.

Behind the Online Comments: The Psychology of Online Trolls: We've all experienced them. Now find out what motivates them.

Most US Kids Who Take ADHD Meds Don't Get Therapy: Fewer than a quarter of US children prescribed ADHD also receive talk therapy, the Journal of the American Medical Association (JAMA) Pediatrics recently reported of the findings from study conducted by the nonprofit research organization RAND.

Tax Court: Anxiety, Depression Are Not Physical Injuries: Ever wonder how the Internal Revenue Service (IRS) views anxiety?

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Anger

Childhood PTSD: Spanking Is Not ‘About Love,’ It’s About Rage

My first memory is of being spanked. I was 3 years old, and I didn’t know what I had done wrong. All I know is that it made me terrified and forever doubtful of my safety in my home.
Minnesota Vikings running back Adrian Peterson was recently suspended after he was charged with reckless or negligent injury of a child after allegedly spanking his 4-year-old son with a switch. Peterson's mother Bonita Jackson told the Houston Chronicle that spanking “is not about abuse”:
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Brain and Behavior

Stigma and Publicity

#DoubtfireFace Challenge for Suicide Prevention? Never heard of it.

The ALS “Ice Bucket Challenge” is undoubtedly one of the most successful and engaging fundraising efforts in recent history. The challenge, which involved posting a video of yourself getting doused by a bucket of ice water, quickly gained popularity and became a social phenomenon. Teens, adults, celebrities, and politicians (including former President George W. Bush) all took part in the challenge, with their videos gaining tens of millions of views.
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Celebrities

Introducing Hollywood Therapy


The lives behind the people who create, write, produce, direct and act on TV shows and movies can be complicated and stressful. Reputations hang in the balance with every new project, and the pressure to succeed and project a “perfect” life is intense and never-ending.

What are the kinds of unique challenges such creative people in Hollywood face? How do they differ from “normal” people’s lives? Is there anything their stories can teach us??

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Celebrities

What Joan Rivers Taught Us about Grief

I was never a huge fan of Joan Rivers’ comedy routines -- a little too coarse for my taste -- but I always had a warm spot in my heart for the woman born Joan Alexandra Molinsky. She had the same glass-etching, Brooklyn accent as most of my mother’s family, with whom I shared summers in the Catskills. And, like Joan Rivers, my New York family’s idea of empathy was usually a heavenward eye-roll, followed by the expression, “Oh, please!”

Most fans of this indomitable woman know that she lost her husband, Edgar Rosenberg, to suicide in 1987 and that it took many years for her to work through her grief. The grief that follows bereavement -- the death of a loved one -- is among the deepest and most painful of human experiences.
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Celebrities

Psychology Around the Net: September 6, 2014


From nude celebrity photos to learning how to up your happiness on the job, we have all the latest psychology-related news around the 'net today.

Psychology Behind Hacking and Sharing Nude Celebrity Photos: Why the reasons might seem obvious, the appeal actually has a psychological basis.

Reframing Your Way to Happiness at Work: Could a few subtle shifts in your mindset change your happiness and productivity levels at work?

Poor Sleep Linked to Suicide: Stanford researchers have found that poor sleep might be an independent suicide risk factor in adults over 65 years old.

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Addiction

Once an Addict, Always an Addict?

This is a saying I’ve always grappled with. One part of me is against any type of labeling, let alone a heavy label to be carried for the rest of your life. We are all so interchangeably dynamic, that to categorize someone into a box forever doesn’t sit well. 

Another part of me completely agrees with this statement and perceives it to be utterly valid. Instead of denying who you are, true acceptance perhaps is the only way to not only recover, but to continue to maintain your recovery. However much I am against “branding” someone for life, it is human nature to create categorizes in order to piece things together and make sense of circumstances.
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Alzheimer

Psychology Around the Net: August 30, 2014


Do you care for a person with Alzheimer's Disease and wonder how you can better help them -- and yourself -- make it day by day? What about a fear of asking for advice? Ever heard of sleep drunkenness? We have it all and more in this week's Psychology Around the Net.

Risky Situations At Work Lead Women To Feel More Anxiety Than Men, Says Study: A new study recently presented at the annual meeting of the American Sociological Association found that women are more likely than men to fold under the pressure of risky situations at work and, thus, perform worse than they would during normal situations.

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