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We’re gearing up for a long weekend. For those who have the day off on Labor Day, how will you spend your time?

I’ve noticed recently that doing no-thing does not feel restful, healing, nor meditative. It feels uncomfortable and anxiety provoking.

Forced to lay still in my yoga class, I realized that all that busy-ness made doing, achieving, and checking things off my to-do list feel normal. But nothing wasn’t empty. Nothing wasn’t void of meaning. Nothing was rich of possibility, potential and faith that if I were to surrender to the moment, all of my questions would eventually be answered and that everything I ever thought I needed or wanted already existed inside of me.

It’s the answer that continues to save me whether I’m having trouble coping with or taking responsibility for my emotions. Silence can soothe the difficulties that external resources can’t resolve.

This holiday, I hope you’ll devote at least a few minutes to doing nothing. Turn off your television. Shut off your laptop. Silence your smartphone. Let those answers sit unresolved. Let your body rest in inactivity. And just be.

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The Most Important Relationship of All
(Childhood Emotional Neglect) – The one relationship that affects all relationships has the power to anchor, inform and direct your life. Read this to learn how to have a healthier relationship with your emotions.

No One Can Push Your Buttons Without Permission
(Couples in Recovery) – How could you feel anything, but angry when someone pushes your buttons? You may be surprised to learn that no matter how upset someone makes you, you always have the control, power and responsibility to not let it get to you.

Embracing Our Bodies Despite Our Flaws
(Weightless) – Can you hold both your strengths and flaws up to the light of love? This simple activity will transform your relationship with the hard parts to love about yourself.

Miley Cyrus’s Road To Redemption?
(Tales of Manic Depression) – Is Miley Cyrus up to her old headline making tricks or does she truly care care about homelessness? This blogger reminds us that regardless of what you think, it’s important to remember the real issues of homelessness and mental illness.

Are We Becoming Psychologically Overly Sensitive
(Healthy Romantic Relationships) – Is your attempt toward greater self-awareness becoming self-indulgent and excessive? According to this, your desire to understand yourself better could be preventing you from living in the present.



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    Last reviewed: By John M. Grohol, Psy.D. on 28 Aug 2014
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Uyemura, B. (2014). Best of Our Blogs: August 29, 2014. Psych Central. Retrieved on March 21, 2015, from


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