Much of our youth is devoted to people-pleasing. It was, in fact, detrimental to our survival. But as we grow, we need to build an inner reservoir of love and esteem to counteract external negativity and criticism. If not, our adulthood picks up where childhood leaves off. We continually fight for approval, acceptance and recognition to fill up what we we lost. It’s a constant battle and most of us just succumb to living someone else’s life.
Author Peter Block quotes Carl Jung in his book The Answer to How is Yes:
“All consciousness begins with an act of disobedience.”
This quote was life changing to me. Instead of looking down on the black sheep, it reveals the beauty behind rebelling.
We all want to belong. We all desire love and acceptance. So when we feel alone or isolated, different or weird because of anxiety, depression, PTSD or addiction, we feel less than. This quote reminds me that being disobedient, breaking the mold of how we’re supposed to be, frees us to live a more aware and conscious life.
As you read this week’s post, try to see your life through this lens. Trauma and illness may have complicated things, but it’s also the catalyst that forced you to be more open, aware and conscious of yourself, your relationships and your life.
Traumatic Life Events Are the Biggest Cause of Anxiety and Depression
(NLP Discoveries) – What predicts anxiety and depression more than family history, income, education, relationship status? One study looks at the significance life events have on your mental health.
Why the Connection Between Addiction and PTSD?
(After Trauma) – Learn why trauma therapy can sometimes organically lead to the decline or even end of substance abuse.
15 Ways to Nourish Your Mind and Body On Bad Weather Days
(Your Body, Your Mind) – How do you nourish your mind and body when the weather is ugly outside? Even if it’s snowing, this post shows us there are always a way to let the light in.
Behavioral Addictions: A Basic Understanding
(Sex & Intimacy in the Digital Age) – Behavioral addictions like gambling or shopping are every bit as detrimental as drug and alcohol addictions. But they can be more insidious because people underestimate their significance. Learn more about the seriousness of this often downplayed addiction.
160 Reasons For Happiness!
(Partners in Wellness) – Even on bad days, hope abounds. If you need some cheering up, read Joan’s growing list of reasons to be happy now.
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