Become Your Own Superhero!I was giddy like a schoolgirl at a Justin Bieber concert when I went to see the movie ‘Man of Steel’ the other day. You see, I’m a big fan of Superman and this was the movie I’d been waiting for all year. (Thankfully, the film was great and I loved it.)

It also got me thinking about what we, as mortal humans, can learn from the life journey of Superman to help us become our own superhero. Clearly, I’m not suggesting that you go out and get yourself bitten by a radioactive spider or spend millions on a cool black suit with a utility belt to become a superhero; no, nothing like that.

What I’m suggesting is that there are many moral dilemmas which Superman faces that we can learn from.

Now, just to be clear, this list is about what we can learn from the 2013 Man of Steel version of Superman, not the morally dubious previous films.Footnotes:

  1. Although I loved Christopher Reeve as Superman, there were way too many dubious lessons in those films. For example, in “Superman II” when Superman gave up his powers to be with Lois Lane, he got beaten up by a guy in a restaurant. Later when he got his powers back, Clark went back and beat up on the guy. Movie moral: it’s OK to get revenge, especially when the other person is weaker than you.

    In “Superman III” it was fine to ignore the fact Superman caused a massive oil spill, which would have devastated so much sea life, just because he wasn’t ‘himself’ because he was affected by fake Kryptonite. Movie moral: People aren’t responsible for their actions if they’re under the influence of some substance or other.

    In the last movie, “Superman Returns,” Lois Lane didn’t tell her husband that she was pregnant with Superman’s child before they got married. She just let him go on thinking he was the father and once Superman found out, he was also OK with that. Movie moral: deceiving somebody about being the father of your child is OK. []

 


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    Last reviewed: By John M. Grohol, Psy.D. on 1 Jul 2013
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APA Reference
Coster, D. (2013). Become Your Own Superhero!. Psych Central. Retrieved on December 19, 2014, from http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2013/07/01/become-your-own-superhero/

 

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