Best of Our Blogs: March 15, 2013
I’ve often caught myself getting angry or upset with others, feeling imprisoned by their words, and haunted by their intentions. But rarely do I see my part in this dramatic play.
If you’ve ever caught yourself complaining about life, ranting about a co-worker or consumed by thoughts of a friend, you might also be unintentionally relinquishing your power to another.
I think we do it as a way to defend our seemingly broken selves. It’s an exercise of self-protection, an automatic response to a past injury and a way to right what’s wrong. But we don’t realize that unconscious reactions to the past end up recreating problems in the present. The only way to heal a hurt is to confront it, acknowledge its hold on our hearts and let go into it instead of hardening our hearts against it.
In The Book of Awakening, author Mark Nepo says:
“As human beings, our distrust builds a hardened resolve over our innocence, the way that silver tarnishes when exposed to air. Only the quiet, daily courage to be can let the air soften our hearts again.”
Food, sleep, and finances are all basic necessities we need to survive in this world. But knowing how to survive loss or lovingly accept a compliment are all important tools to live your life. How do you meet all issues with grace, courage and resilience? Our posts show us how accepting not resisting what is, will get you closer to health, balance and love.
A Simple Step to Improve Healthy Eating: Recognize the Roadblocks
(Healing Together for Couples) – Your relationship with food derives from your culture, social connections and personal history. How do you transform a previously unhealthy relationship into a healthy one? Read these common healthy eating roadblocks and tips to get you back on track.
A Wise Path to Work with Sleep Troubles
(Mindfulness & Psychotherapy) – If you struggle with insomnia, you might have tried just about anything to get to sleep. But mindfulness? Learn how practicing mindfulness may finally lull you to sweet slumber.
Poverty, Homelessness, Mental Illness By The Numbers
(Therapy Soup) – The U.S. poverty rates are dismal to say the least. Find out what is contributing to the increase in poverty, what groups are being hit most, and the states with residents most likely to become poor.
Falling Apart? 4 Ways to Get Yourself Back Together
(Bounce Back) – What do you do if your world gets turns upside down? Here are a few lessons in hope and resilience from someone who bounced back from grief and loss and returned to tell her tale.
How To Take A Compliment
(Weightless) – When someone compliments you do you brush it off, change the subject or try to downplay it? Honor yourself and others by learning how to accept compliments.
Uyemura, B. (2013). Best of Our Blogs: March 15, 2013. Psych Central. Retrieved on August 24, 2016, from http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2013/03/15/best-of-our-blogs-march-15-2013/