The reason I asked was that I truly believe that everyone needs a “home” to come home to. Finding a place where we feel safe, honored, trusted, respected and at peace is so important to our mental health. It hardly matters if home is our actual place of residence.
When I worked as a Marriage and Family therapist intern, I counseled kids with stories that broke my heart. I realized that for them a house was the place they lived, a home was where they felt accepted, loved and secure. For some, meeting me at noon every week was a secondary shelter. And I was happy and grateful to be able to provide that for them.
As adults, we’re no different. I realized that we all need a retreat. We need a place where it’s quiet enough that we can hear our own thoughts. We need a place where we can breathe. We need a place where people love and respect us for who we are and a space where we feel comfortable being ourselves. Without it, there is no exhale. There is no downtime, no peace.
Whether it’s your cubicle at work, a room in your house, the beach or finding your own inner sanctum through meditation, as long as you have one and make your own, that’s all you really need.
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(Healing Together for Couples) – A new study finds that reducing your loneliness could also reduce symptoms of depression. This post is packed with information on the connection between them with strategies on how you can take steps to finally feel lonely no more.
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