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	<title>Comments on: Surviving the Suicide of Someone You Love</title>
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		<title>By: Elvira G. Aletta, Ph.D.</title>
		<link>http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2009/11/21/surviving-the-suicide-of-someone-you-love/comment-page-1/#comment-637799</link>
		<dc:creator>Elvira G. Aletta, Ph.D.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Nov 2009 18:22:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Dawn, 

Yes, it is true that suicide is an option. The terrifying bit is, as you say, it is an option, if taken, that does not allow for do-overs. 

I&#039;ve spoken with many survivors of suicide who at the time fully intended to exercise that option. They didn&#039;t die, they were brought back to life and later, chose to exercise the option to live again. In recovery they learned their thinking at the time was horribly distorted. Talking with the people who love them, who would have survived their death, is part of that realization.

It is a hard subject to discuss from all angles, but again, as you say, well worth bringing out into the open. Thank you for your thoughts.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Dawn, </p>
<p>Yes, it is true that suicide is an option. The terrifying bit is, as you say, it is an option, if taken, that does not allow for do-overs. </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve spoken with many survivors of suicide who at the time fully intended to exercise that option. They didn&#8217;t die, they were brought back to life and later, chose to exercise the option to live again. In recovery they learned their thinking at the time was horribly distorted. Talking with the people who love them, who would have survived their death, is part of that realization.</p>
<p>It is a hard subject to discuss from all angles, but again, as you say, well worth bringing out into the open. Thank you for your thoughts.</p>
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		<title>By: Dawn Pugh</title>
		<link>http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2009/11/21/surviving-the-suicide-of-someone-you-love/comment-page-1/#comment-637796</link>
		<dc:creator>Dawn Pugh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Nov 2009 17:53:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Elvira,

First let me acknowledge your courage in discussing the sensitive and evocative subject of ‘Suicide’.
Secondly thanks for sharing.

Suicide is an ‘Option’, granted the final option but still an option. There are many other options to explore. Great advice to talk about suicide, ask questions, connect with them.

Regards
Dawn Pugh.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Elvira,</p>
<p>First let me acknowledge your courage in discussing the sensitive and evocative subject of ‘Suicide’.<br />
Secondly thanks for sharing.</p>
<p>Suicide is an ‘Option’, granted the final option but still an option. There are many other options to explore. Great advice to talk about suicide, ask questions, connect with them.</p>
<p>Regards<br />
Dawn Pugh.</p>
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