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		<title>By: immyfaye</title>
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		<dc:creator>immyfaye</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Dec 2011 23:08:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>what I can&#039;t stand is people who think they&#039;re professionals on sarcasm when in reality half of the comments that come out of their mouth are just them being assholes. It&#039;s not sarcastic if you&#039;re laughing AT the person you just tried the joke on and they&#039;re standing there staring at you like &quot;wtf just happened?&quot;. They need to be able to laugh at the joke too. If you can&#039;t manage this then you have not succeeded in sarcasm. It&#039;s supposed to be lighthearted and fun. Not some kind of I&#039;m superior because I know what I&#039;m joking about and you&#039;re clueless. You can make them feel stupid, but at least include them in on the laugh.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>what I can&#8217;t stand is people who think they&#8217;re professionals on sarcasm when in reality half of the comments that come out of their mouth are just them being assholes. It&#8217;s not sarcastic if you&#8217;re laughing AT the person you just tried the joke on and they&#8217;re standing there staring at you like &#8220;wtf just happened?&#8221;. They need to be able to laugh at the joke too. If you can&#8217;t manage this then you have not succeeded in sarcasm. It&#8217;s supposed to be lighthearted and fun. Not some kind of I&#8217;m superior because I know what I&#8217;m joking about and you&#8217;re clueless. You can make them feel stupid, but at least include them in on the laugh.</p>
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		<title>By: I was being sarcastic!!!!!</title>
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		<dc:creator>I was being sarcastic!!!!!</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Feb 2010 05:14:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Steve</title>
		<link>http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2009/08/18/would-you-even-recognize-sarcasm/comment-page-5/#comment-632731</link>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2009 06:40:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What we need is some type of sarcasm detector</description>
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		<title>By: Matthew Holford</title>
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		<dc:creator>Matthew Holford</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Aug 2009 18:33:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks - I&#039;ve a certain talent with language that people find scary sometimes, I gather!  I&#039;ve had to put up with a lot of controlling behaviour, as a consequence (including being buried alive in a box, as child, would you believe?!).  I find people strange, needless to say!

Matt</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks &#8211; I&#8217;ve a certain talent with language that people find scary sometimes, I gather!  I&#8217;ve had to put up with a lot of controlling behaviour, as a consequence (including being buried alive in a box, as child, would you believe?!).  I find people strange, needless to say!</p>
<p>Matt</p>
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		<title>By: You vs. Sarcasm &#124; Robby Versus Matt</title>
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		<dc:creator>You vs. Sarcasm &#124; Robby Versus Matt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Aug 2009 02:11:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: SuperfluousBeing</title>
		<link>http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2009/08/18/would-you-even-recognize-sarcasm/comment-page-5/#comment-632102</link>
		<dc:creator>SuperfluousBeing</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 22:08:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well put, Matt.</description>
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		<title>By: Matthew Holford</title>
		<link>http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2009/08/18/would-you-even-recognize-sarcasm/comment-page-5/#comment-632093</link>
		<dc:creator>Matthew Holford</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 19:05:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>SuperfluousBeing wrote:
&quot;...As for facts? Please…they just open the door wider for more discussion, nes pas? And they sure do get in the way sometimes!!!!&quot;

Well, OK...  I guess it depends upon how they&#039;re used.  One may use facts to negate another person&#039;s argument, in the way that politicians do.  But, and I LOVE this book, if you&#039;ve ever read Plato&#039;s &quot;Republic&quot; you&#039;ll have found a masterclass in dialectic, where a fact is stated, which leads one in a certain direction, but then a counterproposition, deemed as True as the first fact stated, negates the direction that was first indicated, and leads in another direction, instead (as we&#039;ve done here: I said facts were boring, you countered - proposition and counterproposition, leading towards a point of agreement).  I don&#039;t know how good the translation is that I have, but if it&#039;s even close, then the guy was a thinker to rival anybody who has come after.

So, yeah, facts are all very well, and one may defend a position with them, or seek the Truth with them, to be best of one&#039;s abilities.  Like anything: facts are neutral, and may be put to any number of purposes, dependent upon the objective of the user.

Matt</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>SuperfluousBeing wrote:<br />
&#8220;&#8230;As for facts? Please…they just open the door wider for more discussion, nes pas? And they sure do get in the way sometimes!!!!&#8221;</p>
<p>Well, OK&#8230;  I guess it depends upon how they&#8217;re used.  One may use facts to negate another person&#8217;s argument, in the way that politicians do.  But, and I LOVE this book, if you&#8217;ve ever read Plato&#8217;s &#8220;Republic&#8221; you&#8217;ll have found a masterclass in dialectic, where a fact is stated, which leads one in a certain direction, but then a counterproposition, deemed as True as the first fact stated, negates the direction that was first indicated, and leads in another direction, instead (as we&#8217;ve done here: I said facts were boring, you countered &#8211; proposition and counterproposition, leading towards a point of agreement).  I don&#8217;t know how good the translation is that I have, but if it&#8217;s even close, then the guy was a thinker to rival anybody who has come after.</p>
<p>So, yeah, facts are all very well, and one may defend a position with them, or seek the Truth with them, to be best of one&#8217;s abilities.  Like anything: facts are neutral, and may be put to any number of purposes, dependent upon the objective of the user.</p>
<p>Matt</p>
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		<title>By: Katrin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Katrin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 05:05:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This has been a nice discussion, especially the last several comments.
I like the exchange in the commenting section. Also, I just for the first time really understood what  AG meant with the words that follow. It&#039;s a profound comment, AG!! Great!

“Meaning the opposite of what you said” is not the same as “meaning something other than what you said.”

KATRIN</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This has been a nice discussion, especially the last several comments.<br />
I like the exchange in the commenting section. Also, I just for the first time really understood what  AG meant with the words that follow. It&#8217;s a profound comment, AG!! Great!</p>
<p>“Meaning the opposite of what you said” is not the same as “meaning something other than what you said.”</p>
<p>KATRIN</p>
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		<title>By: SuperfluousBeing</title>
		<link>http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2009/08/18/would-you-even-recognize-sarcasm/comment-page-5/#comment-632046</link>
		<dc:creator>SuperfluousBeing</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 04:50:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If I&#039;m just tickling you, am I being cruel?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If I&#8217;m just tickling you, am I being cruel?</p>
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		<title>By: SuperfluousBeing</title>
		<link>http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2009/08/18/would-you-even-recognize-sarcasm/comment-page-5/#comment-632045</link>
		<dc:creator>SuperfluousBeing</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 04:48:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I guess it all depends on how deep you feel the dig!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I guess it all depends on how deep you feel the dig!</p>
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		<title>By: SuperfluousBeing</title>
		<link>http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2009/08/18/would-you-even-recognize-sarcasm/comment-page-5/#comment-632044</link>
		<dc:creator>SuperfluousBeing</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 04:44:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, this stuff really messes with the... the mind!!

This is why I LOVE dictionaries!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, this stuff really messes with the&#8230; the mind!!</p>
<p>This is why I LOVE dictionaries!</p>
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		<title>By: Katrin</title>
		<link>http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2009/08/18/would-you-even-recognize-sarcasm/comment-page-5/#comment-632043</link>
		<dc:creator>Katrin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 04:33:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks, Shmuel, for the elaborate explanation and distinction. I  guess I stand corrected, as I never use &#039;this stuff&#039; to hurt but at best to tease. (at least not to someone&#039;s face)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, Shmuel, for the elaborate explanation and distinction. I  guess I stand corrected, as I never use &#8216;this stuff&#8217; to hurt but at best to tease. (at least not to someone&#8217;s face)</p>
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		<title>By: Shmuel</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shmuel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 04:20:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sorry, your revised definition (&quot;Sarcasm is simply saying something intended in a mean-spirited, derogatory or unpleasant manner while meaning the exact opposite.&quot;) is still wrong. It&#039;s better in that you&#039;ve added the &quot;mean-spiriting, derogatory or unpleasant&quot; bit, but there is actually no requirement that a sarcastic remark mean &quot;the exact opposite.&quot;

Merriam-Webster&#039;s Collegiate Dictionary, 11th edition (2004) defines sarcasm as &quot;a sharp and often satirical or ironic utterance designed to cut or give pain.&quot; A usage note contrasts &quot;sarcastic, satiric, ironic, sardonic.&quot; which can overlap, but don&#039;t have to. Note that while sarcasm often does involve irony, it&#039;s not an essential component; the defining feature is that &quot;SARCASTIC implies an intentional inflicting of pain by deriding, taunting, or ridiculing.&quot;

Webster&#039;s New World College Dictionary, 4th edition (2004), defines sarcasm as &quot;a taunting, sneering, cutting, or caustic remark; gibe or jeer, generally ironic.&quot; It too has a usage note contrasting similar terms, saying that &quot;sarcastic implies intent to hurt by taunting with mocking ridicule, veiled sneers, etc. [a sarcastic reminder that work begins at 9:00 A.M.]&quot;

I need hardly point out that the above example of sarcasm given by the dictionary would not have been considered sarcasm by this study, need I?

See also: American Heritage Dictionary, 4th edition; Random House Webster&#039;s Dictionary, 2nd edition. Sarcasm can involve saying something that means the opposite of what you mean. It often does. But it is by no means a requirement.

(To get back to an example cited in this article, while it might depend on the delivery, I&#039;d say &quot;My grandmother can run faster than that&quot; certainly qualifies. [Heck, while not required, it probably even involves an assertion contrary to fact.])</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry, your revised definition (&#8220;Sarcasm is simply saying something intended in a mean-spirited, derogatory or unpleasant manner while meaning the exact opposite.&#8221;) is still wrong. It&#8217;s better in that you&#8217;ve added the &#8220;mean-spiriting, derogatory or unpleasant&#8221; bit, but there is actually no requirement that a sarcastic remark mean &#8220;the exact opposite.&#8221;</p>
<p>Merriam-Webster&#8217;s Collegiate Dictionary, 11th edition (2004) defines sarcasm as &#8220;a sharp and often satirical or ironic utterance designed to cut or give pain.&#8221; A usage note contrasts &#8220;sarcastic, satiric, ironic, sardonic.&#8221; which can overlap, but don&#8217;t have to. Note that while sarcasm often does involve irony, it&#8217;s not an essential component; the defining feature is that &#8220;SARCASTIC implies an intentional inflicting of pain by deriding, taunting, or ridiculing.&#8221;</p>
<p>Webster&#8217;s New World College Dictionary, 4th edition (2004), defines sarcasm as &#8220;a taunting, sneering, cutting, or caustic remark; gibe or jeer, generally ironic.&#8221; It too has a usage note contrasting similar terms, saying that &#8220;sarcastic implies intent to hurt by taunting with mocking ridicule, veiled sneers, etc. [a sarcastic reminder that work begins at 9:00 A.M.]&#8221;</p>
<p>I need hardly point out that the above example of sarcasm given by the dictionary would not have been considered sarcasm by this study, need I?</p>
<p>See also: American Heritage Dictionary, 4th edition; Random House Webster&#8217;s Dictionary, 2nd edition. Sarcasm can involve saying something that means the opposite of what you mean. It often does. But it is by no means a requirement.</p>
<p>(To get back to an example cited in this article, while it might depend on the delivery, I&#8217;d say &#8220;My grandmother can run faster than that&#8221; certainly qualifies. [Heck, while not required, it probably even involves an assertion contrary to fact.])</p>
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		<title>By: SuperfluousBeing</title>
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		<dc:creator>SuperfluousBeing</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 04:07:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very true, Matt.  I, myself, do not always acknowledge the distinction and find myself feeling stung at times.

As for facts?  Please...they just open the door wider for more discussion, nes pas? And they sure do get in the way sometimes!!!!
:)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very true, Matt.  I, myself, do not always acknowledge the distinction and find myself feeling stung at times.</p>
<p>As for facts?  Please&#8230;they just open the door wider for more discussion, nes pas? And they sure do get in the way sometimes!!!!<br />
 <img src='http://g.psychcentral.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Matthew Holford</title>
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		<dc:creator>Matthew Holford</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 00:10:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>SuperfluousBeing wrote:
&quot;...Cannot the sarcastic comment be directed toward the opinion rather than the person?..&quot;

Absolutely, but this is a distinction that is not always acknowledged, either by the person directing the comment, or by the person receiving it.  In other words, one&#039;s opinions/beliefs and one&#039;s whole self are quite often seen as synonymous (one never knows how fundamental the belief being criticized may be to a person).  Also, one never knows what a person&#039;s triggers are - a tiny critique of a person&#039;s preference in music, for example, may take a person back to any number of dark recollections.

I think if one is going to criticize another&#039;s opinion, one has to be clear that one is also only stating an opinion.  After all, facts are boring - they end discussions!

Matt</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>SuperfluousBeing wrote:<br />
&#8220;&#8230;Cannot the sarcastic comment be directed toward the opinion rather than the person?..&#8221;</p>
<p>Absolutely, but this is a distinction that is not always acknowledged, either by the person directing the comment, or by the person receiving it.  In other words, one&#8217;s opinions/beliefs and one&#8217;s whole self are quite often seen as synonymous (one never knows how fundamental the belief being criticized may be to a person).  Also, one never knows what a person&#8217;s triggers are &#8211; a tiny critique of a person&#8217;s preference in music, for example, may take a person back to any number of dark recollections.</p>
<p>I think if one is going to criticize another&#8217;s opinion, one has to be clear that one is also only stating an opinion.  After all, facts are boring &#8211; they end discussions!</p>
<p>Matt</p>
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