<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8"?><rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
		xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd"
	xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/"
	>
<channel>
	<title>Comments on: Having Problems Means Being Alive</title>
	<atom:link href="http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2009/02/16/having-problems-means-being-alive/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2009/02/16/having-problems-means-being-alive/</link>
	<description>Dr. John Grohol&#039;s daily update on all things in psychology and mental health. Since 1999.</description>
	<lastBuildDate>Sat, 26 May 2012 02:27:01 +0000</lastBuildDate>
	<sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency>
	
	<item>
		<title>By: Katrin</title>
		<link>http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2009/02/16/having-problems-means-being-alive/comment-page-3/#comment-637165</link>
		<dc:creator>Katrin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 02:49:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://psychcentral.com/blog/?p=2638#comment-637165</guid>
		<description>Thank you Dr. Pies, for that. I am a little worried about her, as it&#039;s taken over the entire brain and more but they first have to do gross brain emergency rads and then deal with the other. But she is OK otherwise. Thanks again for letting me share this and you are right, it was totally unrealistic for me to expect that you would know. Katrin</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you Dr. Pies, for that. I am a little worried about her, as it&#8217;s taken over the entire brain and more but they first have to do gross brain emergency rads and then deal with the other. But she is OK otherwise. Thanks again for letting me share this and you are right, it was totally unrealistic for me to expect that you would know. Katrin</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Ronald Pies MD</title>
		<link>http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2009/02/16/having-problems-means-being-alive/comment-page-3/#comment-637014</link>
		<dc:creator>Ronald Pies MD</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 05:08:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://psychcentral.com/blog/?p=2638#comment-637014</guid>
		<description>Hi, again, Katrin--Please know that the one who needs to be in my thoughts and prayers will be. --Best regards, Ron Pies</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, again, Katrin&#8211;Please know that the one who needs to be in my thoughts and prayers will be. &#8211;Best regards, Ron Pies</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Katrin</title>
		<link>http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2009/02/16/having-problems-means-being-alive/comment-page-3/#comment-637012</link>
		<dc:creator>Katrin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 05:04:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://psychcentral.com/blog/?p=2638#comment-637012</guid>
		<description>The person who commented somewhere that she had had a lot of trauma and then cancer and which was to her a good experience, two years ago.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The person who commented somewhere that she had had a lot of trauma and then cancer and which was to her a good experience, two years ago.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Katrin</title>
		<link>http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2009/02/16/having-problems-means-being-alive/comment-page-3/#comment-637009</link>
		<dc:creator>Katrin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 04:59:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://psychcentral.com/blog/?p=2638#comment-637009</guid>
		<description>I just felt I wanted to give you a &#039;private&#039; message that not everyone ought to understand, or I don&#039;t really want to make an announcement but then the only way I can tell you is somewhere under your articles as I have no other, or private way. Someone as in like someone like me or myself, well it spread to her brain and you remind me in relation to brain. KAT Just wanted to share this, not to get attention or feedback but so you know because I know you care and because I care about you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just felt I wanted to give you a &#8216;private&#8217; message that not everyone ought to understand, or I don&#8217;t really want to make an announcement but then the only way I can tell you is somewhere under your articles as I have no other, or private way. Someone as in like someone like me or myself, well it spread to her brain and you remind me in relation to brain. KAT Just wanted to share this, not to get attention or feedback but so you know because I know you care and because I care about you.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Ronald Pies MD</title>
		<link>http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2009/02/16/having-problems-means-being-alive/comment-page-3/#comment-637007</link>
		<dc:creator>Ronald Pies MD</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 04:23:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://psychcentral.com/blog/?p=2638#comment-637007</guid>
		<description>Hi, Katrin--Good to hear from you! Please excuse my obtuseness, but I am not quite sure what comments or person you are referencing--or whether you wanted to raise a specific question. Sorry--I&#039;m sure I ought to understand, but if you care to clarify, I&#039;ll try to respond in a more useful way! --Best, Ron Pies MD</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, Katrin&#8211;Good to hear from you! Please excuse my obtuseness, but I am not quite sure what comments or person you are referencing&#8211;or whether you wanted to raise a specific question. Sorry&#8211;I&#8217;m sure I ought to understand, but if you care to clarify, I&#8217;ll try to respond in a more useful way! &#8211;Best, Ron Pies MD</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Katrin</title>
		<link>http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2009/02/16/having-problems-means-being-alive/comment-page-3/#comment-637004</link>
		<dc:creator>Katrin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 03:07:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://psychcentral.com/blog/?p=2638#comment-637004</guid>
		<description>I was thinking about this article today in relation to one of the people who had commented on this article earlier about ongoing problems and how that related to being alive.

I am not expecting you to review those details, I just thought about that person when she found out  that &#039;it&#039; had spread to her brain only recently. (it&#039;s just a short PS)

I know you will know what I mean, KATRIN</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was thinking about this article today in relation to one of the people who had commented on this article earlier about ongoing problems and how that related to being alive.</p>
<p>I am not expecting you to review those details, I just thought about that person when she found out  that &#8216;it&#8217; had spread to her brain only recently. (it&#8217;s just a short PS)</p>
<p>I know you will know what I mean, KATRIN</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Feeling Grief Means Being Alive: 7 Tips to Help &#171; tamaramonell.com</title>
		<link>http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2009/02/16/having-problems-means-being-alive/comment-page-2/#comment-631125</link>
		<dc:creator>Feeling Grief Means Being Alive: 7 Tips to Help &#171; tamaramonell.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Aug 2009 14:27:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://psychcentral.com/blog/?p=2638#comment-631125</guid>
		<description>[...] a recent blog, Ronald Pies, M.D. wrote about an experience which left him fuming when a local pharmacy lost close to 50 years of [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] a recent blog, Ronald Pies, M.D. wrote about an experience which left him fuming when a local pharmacy lost close to 50 years of [...]</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Katrin</title>
		<link>http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2009/02/16/having-problems-means-being-alive/comment-page-2/#comment-630064</link>
		<dc:creator>Katrin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Jul 2009 02:03:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://psychcentral.com/blog/?p=2638#comment-630064</guid>
		<description>Cheers, Katrin Reichhold</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Cheers, Katrin Reichhold</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: ronald pies MD</title>
		<link>http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2009/02/16/having-problems-means-being-alive/comment-page-2/#comment-630049</link>
		<dc:creator>ronald pies MD</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Jul 2009 20:08:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://psychcentral.com/blog/?p=2638#comment-630049</guid>
		<description>Thanks again for the kind note, Katrin. And, yes--I did find some of those comments on Beliefnet quite disappointing, particularly since some were apparently from my &quot;colleagues&quot;! 

I personally find it distasteful that medical professionals write blogs and emails under &quot;pen names&quot; or clever pseudonyms--especially when they use their anonymity to attack other professionals. In my view, if a physician or other health professional says something he or she wants people to know about, the responsible thing is to use one&#039;s name. (I do understand that, for reasons of personal security or fear of stigma, some non-professionals do not want to leave their full names--I hold my medical colleagues to a different standard).  

But, then--in the larger scheme of life&#039;s brief span, &quot;this, too, shall pass.&quot; And--to return to my theme--&quot;Having problems means being alive!&quot;

By the way, in my book,Katrin,you are quite an important person! --Best regards, Ron Pies MD</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks again for the kind note, Katrin. And, yes&#8211;I did find some of those comments on Beliefnet quite disappointing, particularly since some were apparently from my &#8220;colleagues&#8221;! </p>
<p>I personally find it distasteful that medical professionals write blogs and emails under &#8220;pen names&#8221; or clever pseudonyms&#8211;especially when they use their anonymity to attack other professionals. In my view, if a physician or other health professional says something he or she wants people to know about, the responsible thing is to use one&#8217;s name. (I do understand that, for reasons of personal security or fear of stigma, some non-professionals do not want to leave their full names&#8211;I hold my medical colleagues to a different standard).  </p>
<p>But, then&#8211;in the larger scheme of life&#8217;s brief span, &#8220;this, too, shall pass.&#8221; And&#8211;to return to my theme&#8211;&#8221;Having problems means being alive!&#8221;</p>
<p>By the way, in my book,Katrin,you are quite an important person! &#8211;Best regards, Ron Pies MD</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Katrin</title>
		<link>http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2009/02/16/having-problems-means-being-alive/comment-page-2/#comment-630023</link>
		<dc:creator>Katrin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Jul 2009 06:49:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://psychcentral.com/blog/?p=2638#comment-630023</guid>
		<description>Thank you, Dr. Pies. I just read that interview with T. Borchard and antidepressants, and the comments you received.

Just want to say I am sorry and that I find most of the comments incredibly embarrassing, to put it mildly...similar to a &#039;transference neurosis&#039;? or whatever, and totally unrelated to anything you said. i am also embarrassed by the fact that a psychiatrist would not write under his real name. (I certainly have no problems using my real name and the only reason I use my first name a lot is because I comment so much, and not to avoid being seen and heard for who I am) I am just not that important of a person.

Anyway, I heard you! Katrin</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you, Dr. Pies. I just read that interview with T. Borchard and antidepressants, and the comments you received.</p>
<p>Just want to say I am sorry and that I find most of the comments incredibly embarrassing, to put it mildly&#8230;similar to a &#8216;transference neurosis&#8217;? or whatever, and totally unrelated to anything you said. i am also embarrassed by the fact that a psychiatrist would not write under his real name. (I certainly have no problems using my real name and the only reason I use my first name a lot is because I comment so much, and not to avoid being seen and heard for who I am) I am just not that important of a person.</p>
<p>Anyway, I heard you! Katrin</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Ronald Pies MD</title>
		<link>http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2009/02/16/having-problems-means-being-alive/comment-page-2/#comment-630021</link>
		<dc:creator>Ronald Pies MD</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Jul 2009 05:53:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://psychcentral.com/blog/?p=2638#comment-630021</guid>
		<description>Katrin, many thanks for sharing your brave and hard-won insights, and for your kind words. Let us hope that all who are in need of support and solace will make use of your gifts. --Best regards, R. Pies MD</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Katrin, many thanks for sharing your brave and hard-won insights, and for your kind words. Let us hope that all who are in need of support and solace will make use of your gifts. &#8211;Best regards, R. Pies MD</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Katrin</title>
		<link>http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2009/02/16/having-problems-means-being-alive/comment-page-2/#comment-630020</link>
		<dc:creator>Katrin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Jul 2009 05:27:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://psychcentral.com/blog/?p=2638#comment-630020</guid>
		<description>PS: It shows that you really care.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>PS: It shows that you really care.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Katrin</title>
		<link>http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2009/02/16/having-problems-means-being-alive/comment-page-2/#comment-630019</link>
		<dc:creator>Katrin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Jul 2009 05:24:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://psychcentral.com/blog/?p=2638#comment-630019</guid>
		<description>Dear doc, as usual, I am too late, and by the time I get to an article, it&#039;s no longer of interest.

But this is what I want to say. Well, first I want to say that I &#039;know&#039;. I have died so many times little by little, I am now glad for all that has happened. i am no longer that scared of death because I already know what it&#039;s like, and I know I can survive it.

Same with really horrible feelings. i used to be so scared of bad feelings, but now I know I can survive just about anything.

And then, it&#039;s all about the small things that really matter and that are so important, and then most importantly, about not being alone. if you are not totally alone, you can survive pretty much anything, even death.

So, my point here is that little things that I used to take for granted now make me so happy, i want top tell the whole world about what great things are happening...every small thing means so much to me.

Like your responding to all these comments.
It means so much, and it is such an important and wonderful gift, and I would be the very first one to know.

Thank you!  (I mean, for every comment to every one, and it&#039;s not even about me.)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear doc, as usual, I am too late, and by the time I get to an article, it&#8217;s no longer of interest.</p>
<p>But this is what I want to say. Well, first I want to say that I &#8216;know&#8217;. I have died so many times little by little, I am now glad for all that has happened. i am no longer that scared of death because I already know what it&#8217;s like, and I know I can survive it.</p>
<p>Same with really horrible feelings. i used to be so scared of bad feelings, but now I know I can survive just about anything.</p>
<p>And then, it&#8217;s all about the small things that really matter and that are so important, and then most importantly, about not being alone. if you are not totally alone, you can survive pretty much anything, even death.</p>
<p>So, my point here is that little things that I used to take for granted now make me so happy, i want top tell the whole world about what great things are happening&#8230;every small thing means so much to me.</p>
<p>Like your responding to all these comments.<br />
It means so much, and it is such an important and wonderful gift, and I would be the very first one to know.</p>
<p>Thank you!  (I mean, for every comment to every one, and it&#8217;s not even about me.)</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Ronald Pies MD</title>
		<link>http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2009/02/16/having-problems-means-being-alive/comment-page-2/#comment-630012</link>
		<dc:creator>Ronald Pies MD</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2009 23:38:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://psychcentral.com/blog/?p=2638#comment-630012</guid>
		<description>Hi, Daniel--I know things look hopeless from where you stand, but I can tell you that you are not alone, and that you can feel better if you get some professional help. Please start by seeing your family MD, or nearest emergency room, ASAP. If you can&#039;t talk to your wife about all this, talk to a friend, or call one of the local suicide hotlines in your area [suicidehotlines.com]. Your family needs you to see this through...you can do it!--Best wishes, R. Pies MD</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, Daniel&#8211;I know things look hopeless from where you stand, but I can tell you that you are not alone, and that you can feel better if you get some professional help. Please start by seeing your family MD, or nearest emergency room, ASAP. If you can&#8217;t talk to your wife about all this, talk to a friend, or call one of the local suicide hotlines in your area [suicidehotlines.com]. Your family needs you to see this through&#8230;you can do it!&#8211;Best wishes, R. Pies MD</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Daniel</title>
		<link>http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2009/02/16/having-problems-means-being-alive/comment-page-2/#comment-630006</link>
		<dc:creator>Daniel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2009 22:49:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://psychcentral.com/blog/?p=2638#comment-630006</guid>
		<description>My life is spining out of control. I&#039;ve lost my job, I&#039;m looking at forclosure on my home  &amp; haveing comunication problems with my wife. I&#039;ve contiplated suicide but thinking of my 12yr old son has kept me from doing it. I&#039;m at my ropes end &amp; afraid I&#039;m going to loose my mind. I need some kind of help too remain mentaly stable. I need talk to someone before I give up completly. Can someone help me!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My life is spining out of control. I&#8217;ve lost my job, I&#8217;m looking at forclosure on my home  &amp; haveing comunication problems with my wife. I&#8217;ve contiplated suicide but thinking of my 12yr old son has kept me from doing it. I&#8217;m at my ropes end &amp; afraid I&#8217;m going to loose my mind. I need some kind of help too remain mentaly stable. I need talk to someone before I give up completly. Can someone help me!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
</channel>
</rss>

<!-- Performance optimized by W3 Total Cache. Learn more: http://www.w3-edge.com/wordpress-plugins/

Minified using disk: basic
Page Caching using disk: enhanced
Database Caching 1/20 queries in 0.013 seconds using disk: basic
Object Caching 527/527 objects using disk: basic
Content Delivery Network via Amazon Web Services: CloudFront: g.psychcentral.com

Served from: psychcentral.com @ 2012-05-26 06:48:08 -->
