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My life has been going downhill

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on November 1st, 2009
Hi, Lately my life has been going down hill...I''m 13. I have no friends, and I don't even try anymore... It all started when my baby brother was born eight years ago. Thats when my dad's career really took off... We move a lot, and after that move, when I was 5 and lost so many friends, i just never made anymore... A lot has happened to me since... My mom just told me she was diagnosed with paranoia, and that she and dad ... Continue reading... »

Living in Fear

By Kristina Randle, Ph.D., LCSW on November 1st, 2009
Hello, I feel that I've lived most of my life in fear. I'm terrified of meeting new people, going to unfamiliar places, using unfamiliar forms of transportation: in short, if it's not my neighborhood, or I'm not in the presence of people I trust a lot, I'm too scared to make myself do anything new, really. And this makes me feel as if I'm missing out a lot on what life has to offer. This has gotten worse as time goes on. In high school, because ... Continue reading... »

Will boyhood same sex experiences affect romance with girlfriend?

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on October 31st, 2009
About a year ago some memories seemed to come to the surface all of a sudden with no obvious catalyst. All I can recall is that when I was about 6,7, or 8, my older brother (4 years older) took me into my dad's private office where we would play a "game." I'll just be blunt because there isn't much of a point in beating around the bush. He told me that if I performed oral sex on him, then I would ... Continue reading... »

Attachment to Friends and Relationships

By Kristina Randle, Ph.D., LCSW on October 31st, 2009
I appreciate this service and wondered if any light could be shed on my problem. I find that in my life, I have often grown very attached and love my girlfriends dearly. I have always been the type of person who loves people and I am proud that I am kind, have great empathy, and am loving to all those around me. Many people love to be around me and I have never had a problem socially and can get along with ... Continue reading... »

I want to run away

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on October 30th, 2009
I want to runaway from my house cus my aunt is always beating me up for no reason. current_problem: Ok ima tell you a little about me im 13 years old girl.when i was 6yo my parents past away and now im living with my aunt but since i was 7 she start to beat me up for no reason so now i cant hold it anymore and i wana run away with my boyfriend i love him so much he is 19 yo i meet ... Continue reading... »

Wondering if I Have Depression?

By Kristina Randle, Ph.D., LCSW on October 30th, 2009
Since I have been 10 years old I have not felt right. I am lethargic, I am an introvert and spend a lot of time alone and have for the last 15 years. I never have any energy so I do not socialize very much. I feel this draining feeling in my head that makes me not want to make the effort to talk with people. Because of all this I personal relationships have suffered. Every woman I have ever dated has left me ... Continue reading... »

7 yr old daughter has become out of control

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on October 29th, 2009
I have a 7 yr old daughter, a 7 yr old stepdaughter ( who I have had full custody of since she was 1) and a 2 yr old daughter. My step daughter is a doll. She has always been very well behaved, My biological 7 yr old for some reason is very defiant, very angry when she doesn't get her way, and becomes violent with her sister at times. She fights w/ her sister anytime things dont go her way, she will reach out ... Continue reading... »

Medications Messing with My Head?

By Kristina Randle, Ph.D., LCSW on October 29th, 2009
Hi. I have been taking anti depressants for about 5 years for anxiety - I was suffering from constant panic attacks. Although the panic attacks have gone I still have feelings of hopelessness frequently and think about suicide alot. I have problems with eating and try to restrict my intake although annoyingly I am unable to lose weight. I am not sure if this is a problem or not. Prior to commencing anti depressants I never had suicidal thoughts and worry ... Continue reading... »

Involved wth Married Man

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on October 28th, 2009
i have been involved with a man who i feel is the one for me he came out recently and told me he was still married and even living with her. He claims he dose not love her and he is there for his son ..she cheated on him and is now pregnant. they dont know who the father is he said after the baby is born he is leaving her ..but my question is why is it ok to leave then and not ... Continue reading... »

9-year-old daughter anger issues

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on October 28th, 2009
Separated from husband of 16 years. He has physically,emotionally and verbally abused me through the whole marriage. We have three children who has seen it all. They constantly fight, yell, hit, call names, etc. Do not know how to get along at all. The nine year old,she is the middle child, and has always stated she's not loved or I don't like her, low self esteem, she will destroy things, and will go into crying spell if you just tell her to do ... Continue reading... »

Chance of Relapse?

By Kristina Randle, Ph.D., LCSW on October 27th, 2009
Have you ever been so afraid of being attacked or hurt that you would try to stay on guard constantly? If you asked me this question about a year ago, I would answer yes. Why did I feel like this? I am still wanting to find out. I will find out in the future. I was born the youngest of 4 in a small town in the middle of nowhere, West Virginia. I never felt like I was home there. I wanted to live in ... Continue reading... »

My problems will increase day by day

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on October 27th, 2009
i'm 32 year old married for 3 years with 2 children. my behaviour is changing quite surprisingly after wedding and i'm getting more aggressive day by day. my daily routine life is quie hectic. i do 9 to 5 job (8 hrs). i've to take care of my children one and 2 year old. i take my younger child of age one year with me in office.also i have to arrange for my elder daughter (2 year old) as where she should spend her day ... Continue reading... »