Work Articles

Don’t See Eye-to-Eye with Boyfriend

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Thursday, November 1st, 2012
I have two children ages 12 and 11. I started dating my bf 6 years ago. I knew since then that he didn't want a family and that he was selfish. I was ok with that then. But now I would like us to ...

Extremely Lonely & Hopeless

By Kristina Randle, Ph.D., LCSW on Thursday, November 1st, 2012
Hi there, My parents separated when I was 3. Was raised by my mom that was working all day so she could afford to raise me and help my grandparents. Was underweight since I was probably 4 maybe because I started growing super fast. Had ...

Trouble with Reality

By Kristina Randle, Ph.D., LCSW on Monday, October 29th, 2012
Hello. I am having some issues trying to differentiate between reality and dreams. I have become increasingly suspicious, especially of my boyfriend, when he leaves the house pretty much accusing him of doing something wrong. I have had severe depression. I am oversleeping the majority ...

[Video] I’m a Fatso in a World of Barbie Dolls

By Julie Hanks, LCSW on Saturday, October 13th, 2012
A couple of years ago, I lost about 40 pounds due mostly to a supplement I was taking. I quit taking the supplement about a year ago, because info I read led me to believe it might not be safe. I have gained back most ...

Suicidal and Need Help

By Kristina Randle, Ph.D., LCSW on Tuesday, October 2nd, 2012
I'm not sure what to do. I'm severely suicidal and have attempted to kill myself 7 months ago and can't stop thinking about doing it again. I did see a therapist before but didn't find she helped me at all. She told me my problems ...

[Video] Can Employers Find Out I’ve Been Hospitalized?

By Julie Hanks, LCSW on Wednesday, September 26th, 2012
In 2011 I was sent to a Behavioral Center because I tried to kill myself and I was self-harming very badly. I was released after a week and ...

Promiscuous Past

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Sunday, September 23rd, 2012
I was previously married and had an affair with a co-worker/boss. He was/is married. It went on for a few months. No one ever found out, but my marriage ended. The boss remains married. I am now dating a new ...

Am I Schizophrenic, Too?

By Kristina Randle, Ph.D., LCSW on Tuesday, September 18th, 2012
My sister was diagnosed schizophrenic recently. After researching it and dealing with her, I am worried I have it. I have believed for a long time that I can know peoples thoughts, feelings, and problems. I believe they can know mine. I get scared to ...

Mid-Life Drug Craving?

By Kristina Randle, Ph.D., LCSW on Saturday, September 8th, 2012
I am 40, professional and from the outside, I'm sure it seems as if I'm doing fairly well. I'm in a job that should be a "dream job". I have been happily in therapy for a long time and I believe I'm pretty self-aware. However, ...

I Keep Failing as a Mom

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Sunday, September 2nd, 2012
I'm a single mom of a 20 month old little girl. She and I moved out of her dads home last November 2011. He and I stopped attempting to have any type of relationship earlier this year after I got fed up with him ...

Don’t Know What To Do With My Life

By Kristina Randle, Ph.D., LCSW on Saturday, September 1st, 2012
I'm a 21 year old African American male from Chicago, IL. I'm contacting you today is because like many other people I really have no idea what i wanna do with my life. I am very creative, I really wanna help people, and wanna make ...

Figuring Out Diagnosis

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Wednesday, August 15th, 2012
I was diagnosed at the age of 16 with Borderline personality disorder and PTSD. I have always struggled with addiction and self injury. I am all over the map and have two doctors telling me different things and I’m not sure where to go. one ...