Sex Articles

Can I Trust My Daughter’s Dad to Be with Her?

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Thursday, May 22nd, 2014
From New Zealand: I did not reunite with my daughters biological dad until she was 8 years old. She is now 15 and I am very worried that he may be planning something inappropriate. It all started when she was 14...her dad and I do ...

I Really Love My First Cousin

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Wednesday, May 21st, 2014
From India: I have never been in a relationship. When I was 18 my cousin was 11, we had consensual sex(I did not penetrate), we did that for about a year, her breasts were quite developed at that time, so I was attracted to her. ...

Boyfriend Has a Death Fetish

By Holly Counts, Psy.D. on Thursday, May 15th, 2014
I’m in a relationship with a very sweet and sensitive man. He told me once that he gets turned on by the idea of death, I found that odd, but we didn't really talk much about it. I was fixing his computer for ...

Is There Any Way to Cope With Sexual Assault as a Minor Without Parental Involvement?

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Wednesday, May 14th, 2014
I've recently begun meeting with a school psychologist for a lack of motivation and a sexual assault by a random assailant that I suffered this summer. However, due to our state laws a school counselor is required to report any kind of sexual abuse to ...

I Want To Kill Someone and Have Sex with Them

By Kristina Randle, Ph.D., LCSW on Saturday, May 10th, 2014
I am 16. Boy. I have various thoughts about committing sexual acts with young kids, 10-13. I have done things with a lot of kids, most when i was little, but still some at this age. My brother is one of these kids. Yes, I have ...

Needing Marriage Advice

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Friday, May 2nd, 2014
I was molested and raped growing up. I have been pushing my husband away and I am feeling low about myself. I have hurt him a lot I turn to people who have hurt me in the past and I want to be able to ...

Troubled by a Massage Therapist and Boyfriend Who Can’t Control Himself

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Saturday, April 26th, 2014
Hello. I went for a day at the spa with my sisters and everything was going great. Then I went for my massage that my sister had already booked for me, it was a nice gift from her. Then I realized that it was a ...

Should I be Considered a Pedophile Because of My Thoughts?

By Holly Counts, Psy.D. on Tuesday, April 22nd, 2014
I'm 22 year old male. Over last couple of months I have been coming to terms with the fact that I was probably sexually molested by my father at early age. I've had a pretty hard childhood filled with low self-esteem, bullying, constant ...

I Want to Know What’s Wrong with Me

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Sunday, April 20th, 2014
I'm getting really agitated my whole life is going to crap. i don't now whats wrong with me. and need to now. i used to be motivated, exited about life. now i can never sleep i get about 28 hours sleep a week. its not ...

Wife Just Wants to Masturbate

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Saturday, April 19th, 2014
I caught my wife masturbating and she said she just got horny and was outside so she rubbed her self and it felt real good and she kept going till she had orgasm. Since then she masturbates at least three times a week and don’t ...

I Have A Depressed Boyfriend

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Saturday, April 19th, 2014
My boyfriend has depression but it is causing other problems as a result, especially the way I feel about our sex life. My boyfriend has recently been diagnosed with depression and has been prescribed anti-depressants. He has only been taking them for a few days ...

I Was a Child Survivor of Sexual Abuse

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Friday, April 18th, 2014
After 4 months into dating, my boyfriend wanted to break up as he cannot accept it. I was a child survivor of sexual abused and during the initial phase of getting to know my boyfriend, I shared with him that I was sexually abused when ...