Sex Articles

What Do You Do When You’re Lonely?

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Wednesday, March 26th, 2014
From São Paulo: What can I do if I have literally no friends and no social life? No one that I can talk to about how I'm feeling and a shoulder to cry on? What can I do if I have no one to call me ...

I Dreamt My Partner Is a Transsexual

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Sunday, March 16th, 2014
Hello. I have had this dream a few times in my life with four different partners. I dream that I find out that they were born a man (usually a disproportioned ugly man), then at some point in their life, they had a sex change ...

Sadness And Depression Are Ruining Me

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Saturday, March 15th, 2014
I'm 44, Married 21 years, 3 great children, own my own house and have never cheated on my wife. A year ago, a lady started at my company, we became really close friends over the last year. She was going through very hard times, her ...

Crazy Issues with Family

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Sunday, March 9th, 2014
I need serious advice/feedback because I don't know who I can ask about all this. My sister is married to my brother in law. My brother in law has 2 married sisters who technically I'm not related to. Before she was married I knew one of ...

Girlfriend Throws Tantrums

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Friday, March 7th, 2014
Met a girl in church, about 1.5 years ago. Relationship mostly good, but - 4 times now - when she doesn't have her kids for the weekend, and I want to have an alone night, she gets really angry and demanding. She takes her house ...

Broken Up By My Past Sexual Relationships

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Friday, March 7th, 2014
A year ago a met the love of my life. I had been in a few failed relationships before him that all came down to immaturity from the male's end and the fact that they weren't ready to settle down like I was. I had ...

Husband has low sex drive

By Holly Counts, Psy.D. on Tuesday, February 25th, 2014
My husband has a low testosterone levels and low sex drive comes along with that. He also is overweight but in the process of correcting this problem. My question is how I cope with the lack of sex. On average we ...

Boyfriend Pressures Me into Sex

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Sunday, February 23rd, 2014
I've been dating a guy for almost 2 years. He has a high sex drive. Although I very much enjoy sex with him, sometimes I don't want to have sex. Reasons vary but usually it's because my tummy hurts from my period or he's ...

Boyfriend Cheats, Refuses to Commit

By Kristina Randle, Ph.D., LCSW on Sunday, February 16th, 2014
We have been together 3.5yrs. We talk about marriage, I push a little on when and he pulls away and seeks out sex with low self esteem girls that he can demean in bed. I have an auto immune disease that forces me to not ...

Experimentation as Kids

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Wednesday, February 5th, 2014
Okay, here's the situation. My brother is about a year and a half older than I am, and one day when we came home from school, he was telling me about how he heard from a friend that gay people had sex by doing each ...

Sad and Lonely

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Thursday, January 16th, 2014
I'm 17 years old and I have a normal life. The problem, or problem(s) that I encounter most in my life are that of self esteem, loneliness or sadness. My parents work a lot, and when they aren't working, they're sleeping. Mainly my mother. ...

Anxious When Boyfriend Is Unavailable

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Wednesday, January 15th, 2014
Okay, so something happened a few nights ago and i got really drunk and told my boyfriend i was raped. my friend ended up calling him and he told her that he would talk to me when i wasn't drunk. so then yesterday i texted ...