Sex Articles

Afraid to be Open with Therapist

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Friday, December 28th, 2012
I recently started seeing a therapist at my University because of anxiety, and I want to tell her about something that happened 4 years ago that I've never told anyone. I was 15. My boyfriend wanted me to give him oral sex, which I'd never ...

Does My Friend Have Borderline Personality Disorder?

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Saturday, December 22nd, 2012
First, I would like to explain that I am a Psych major and have been in counseling for years for PTSD and now ADD, among other issues. I believe this person I will describe does have BPD, but I'm not a professional and can't ...

Feeling Guilty About Inappropriate Sexual Feelings

By Kristina Randle, Ph.D., LCSW on Sunday, December 16th, 2012
As a boy my grandfather took pictures on me naked and in my underwear and had lots of verbal abuse from my father. I don't remember any other abuse, but all I remember is undressing in front of my grandfather while taking pictures of me. ...

Friend Is Being Depressed About Turning Gay

By Kristina Randle, Ph.D., LCSW on Saturday, December 15th, 2012
I think that my best friend is turning gay, we're both girls, I'm straight and I have a gay and Bi friends already (I'm not homophobic, at all) and she keeps denying it but she is also getting more depressed when it is brought up ...

Boyfriend Molested a Child

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Monday, December 10th, 2012
i heard from four people (boyfriend's co-workers) that he was bragging at a dinner party about how he had sex with a 12 year old. he said "he did everything with her, man! everything!" i'm sick to my stomach, but should his sex ...

Cheating Boyfriend

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Sunday, November 25th, 2012
My cheating Boyfriend trying to commit suicide. I have had quite some issues. I had been seeing this guy for 4 yrs. and we literally lived-in together. I thought we were happy and perfect.2 months back, out of the blue I came across a sex ...

Postpartum Loss of Libido

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Thursday, November 15th, 2012
I completely lost the desire to have sex after having my first baby 2 years ago. My sex drive never returned. Ever since I had a baby, I have not wanted to have sex at all. Just the thought of it would be a complete ...

Physical Attraction to Someone Else

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Friday, November 9th, 2012
Last night, I made a huge mistake. I cheated on my husband. I do love him, very much; it's just that the spark between us for the most part has become a low flame. I didn't have sex with this other man, but I was ...

Is it Already too Late?

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Thursday, November 8th, 2012
I have been with my bf for 5yrs we fight everyday i feel he dont care, i complain he wont spend time with me and he does nothing. when i try to discuss issues with him he ignores me or it turns into a fight. ...

Sex Before Marriage

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Wednesday, November 7th, 2012
My girlfriend and I have been together for 6 months now, since the beginning of the relationship we have been having sex with no problem, no issue or anything like that. About a month ago I notices a change in her behavior and he interest in ...

Unfair Punishment?

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Wednesday, November 7th, 2012
My boyfriend and I have known each other for 3 years and have been dating on and off for 2 and a half years. Recently we just started dating again. It has been 3 months. Yesterday, we were are my house just hanging out. No ...

Can’t Get Over My Girlfriend’s Past

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Friday, November 2nd, 2012
I'm 21 years old, and my girlfriend is 20 and this is our tenth time dating. I was her first, when she was 16 and I broke up with her eight months after it happened, and between us dating she dated two other people, and ...