Sex Articles

Transgender Issues

By Holly Counts, Psy.D. on Tuesday, July 15th, 2014
I know it's a bit of a cliché, but for as long as I can remember, I have felt very different. As a child, I didn't have many friends, and could not really relate very well to others around me. Aside from this, ...

How Can I Possibly Choose Between the Best Two Men in the Entire World?

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Monday, July 14th, 2014
From the U.S. Ok. So in highschool (im a fifth year college student now) I dated this great guy we'll call Dude. Dude is my age. My relationship with Dude was amazing. we dated from senior year of HS to the end of my freshman ...

Eye Contact in a Group Setting

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Sunday, July 13th, 2014
About a year ago, one of my male friends began showing interest in me and we occasionally began hooking up at social events hosted by friends (this only ever happened under the influence of alcohol). We did very little communicating outside of the setting of ...

Only Aroused by Men

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Saturday, July 12th, 2014
From the U.S.: I am a straight woman who loves my husband, and am sexually attracted to him; however, I am only aroused by him or homosexual men together. Women with men do not arouse me, women with women do not arouse me, only men ...

My Girlfriend Has a History of Sexual Abuse

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Friday, July 11th, 2014
From Australia: I met a girl, I've known her for a month now and shes feeling really comfortable with me and due to my past I've wanted to find out everything about her. One day we were in bed, messing around nothing serious, and she ...

I Need an Explanation for How My Boyfriend Thinks

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Tuesday, July 8th, 2014
From the U.S: My boyfriend of over 1 yr works on the road in different states. He is a supervisor so his hotel room is paid for by employer, he also has an alcohol and drug addiction. I ended relationship today because he refused to ...

A Dream Has Me Puzzled

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Monday, July 7th, 2014
I had a dream, not just an ordinary dream, but it was very very real. I'm a Christian and very active in my church. In my dream, there is a woman whom I've never dated although I find her attractive. I've never had sexual thoughts ...

I Don’t Know if I’m a Pedophile

By Holly Counts, Psy.D. on Tuesday, July 1st, 2014
So I'm 19 I met this girl online, she’s 13.  we started talking and eventually we started talking about sex, it lead to a couple sessions of sexting between the two of us, and unfortunately we sent pics back ...

My Marriage Is Silently Breaking Down

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Friday, June 27th, 2014
I was married two years back. Before marriage I made it clear to my husband that I cannot live with my in-laws under one roof. However since he was not earning very well I agreed to live in the same apartment but in separate flat ...

Is Cross-Dressing Normal?

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Sunday, June 22nd, 2014
From Scotland: Hi, I have been wearing ladies silky half slips for a number of years now.. and need to know if this is normal? Is it weird that I like to wear ladies silky undergarments? A: Cross-dressing is a fetish. That means you have recurrent, ...

Too Young for Divorce?

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Wednesday, June 18th, 2014
I think I was too young to get married. I met my husband when I was 19, we broke up when I was 21 due to lack of communication and lack of affection. We got back together after he told me things would change. They ...

Is My Friend in Love with Me?

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Tuesday, June 17th, 2014
Im a bisexual guy and i have a male friend, we met couple weeks ago. Before we met i was sure that he's heterosexual. One day we had some drinks together and he kissed my neck. I started to wonder but i didn't mind too ...