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I Think I Might Be Gay or a Pedophile

Back in 6th grade, my best friend and I (both guys) would mess around and play truth or dare. We would always end up doing sexual things to each other. We didn’t tell anyone except one more guy who we played the game with once. In 8th grade I stopped playing, because I wanted to force myself to be attracted to girls. I am now in 12th grade, and I still do not get...
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I’m Having Guilty Thoughts

Hi, Recently I’ve been dealing with intrusive thoughts and anxiety, but this is another matter. However, one thing giving tremendous guilt is that I’ve recently remembered some thoughts I had during puberty. During this time when I was probably around 13 or 14, I was very horny all of the time. I would get turned on by almost any female. What is giving me guilt is that there were a few occasions that even...
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I’m 24 and My Husband Isn’t Interested in Sex

We’ve been together 7 years married 6. My husband is 31. I am 24. We separated almost a year due to untreated mental issues and infidelity. He was diagnosed bipolar and medicated now. Finally living together again I was excited to spice things up as that was his excuse for cheating. Now he claims his meds and our kids distract him from wanting sex. We’ve had sex maybe 8 times in 3 months and...
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Total Lack of Interest in Sex

My partner doesn’t have sex. Not with me, himself, or anyone else. He says he finds it disgusting and he says there is nothing in his past that may have caused this. I have never heard of such a thing and I take it personally. The relationship is in real trouble and this is a major reason. Is there such a thing as an asexual human? For all the information absurd and valuable, I...
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Emotional Attachment Issue

Hi, I don’t know whether you received my last message but basically after my daughter was born, the first time me and my partner had sex was all one-sided. He had sex with me while I was asleep. Even though I have been with my boyfriend for five years now I felt violated and that my trust was broken. Since then I am getting very angry with him and won’t let him touch me...
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Sexual Identity and Anxiety

My daughter has recently been having anxiety issues but only at school. She won’t walk down corridors etc without panicking and cries in the toilets. She has severe anxiety surrounding one teacher with no real reason. I have recently discovered she has a bit of a crush on another girl and is having a lot of conversations with her online. The girl is at the school but in the year above. Can anyone help...
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I Want People to Hurt Me

Sometimes, I want guys to hurt me physically or rape me. It doesn’t feel wrong (I don’t know why, but my emotions are basically turned off), but I know that’s not anywhere near normal. It’s nothing that sexually arouses me; I often feel a need for punishment even though I can’t think of anything I’ve done wrong. I’ve been raped almost a year ago. I tried looking this up, but either I’m doing something...
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Why Won’t He Kiss Me or Reciprocate?

I have been seeing someone for the past 7 months. I have been giving him oral sex. He will barely touch me and when he does it’s only over my clothes. The thing that upsets me the most is that he won’t kiss me. I perform such an intimate act with him and he won’t touch or kiss me. When I ask him why he will evade the subject, he doesn’t want to talk...
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Inability to Have Sex

Since I can remember, I’ve always thought of myself as unattractive. At school I was considered undesirable and teased indirectly about my looks. In my later teens men started taking an interest and I became sexually active and happy, eventually entering my first relationship which lasted 4 years. This relationship ended about a year ago and though I am over it, my ex dragged out the ending and it became quite bitter with another...
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Do I Have Dermatillomania?

I am a non-gender binary 15 year old. I’ve recently learned of dermatillomania and think I do have it. I was wondering if you could provide me with your opinion? I was sexually abused when I was 12 and ever since then I’ve had a compulsion to picking my skin. It’s become an obsession. I’ll sit in front of the mirror for hours on end just picking and picking. I have scabs and scars...
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