Sex Articles

Why Am I Never Content?

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Friday, October 17th, 2014
I started dating my husband when I was 15, I am 27 now. We have been married and living together for 2 years now, and I should be happy... Right? I mean, I have all the things a woman my age should want... but I ...

No Feelings

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Monday, October 13th, 2014
I as far as I can remember have been living life that is ideal according to my surroundings, my parents take me as ideal son, my teacher took me as ideal student, at my college my juniors and batch mates looked upon me for inspiration. ...

I Don’t Know Who I Am

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Monday, October 6th, 2014
From the U.S.: Two years and seven months ago I started really looking at who I was and now I don't know who I am anymore. I have gone through thinking I was heterosexual, homosexual, and bisexual. Now I have no sexual interests in any ...

I Am Living in a Sexless Marriage

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Thursday, October 2nd, 2014
From the U.S.: I am about 6.5 months pregnant, and since I have gotten pregnant my husband has refused sex all but one time early on. I am very frustrated. He says it is because it is weird to think about with the baby, but ...

Very Numb Feeling

By Holly Counts, Psy.D. on Wednesday, October 1st, 2014
I'm not sure how I feel it's not even sad it's way passed that now. I'm tired all the time. I am disgusted with myself. I have no sex drive. I can not focus on anything for very long. I'm very easily irritated. ...

My Boyfriend Won’t Have Sex with Me

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Wednesday, October 1st, 2014
I've been seeing my boyfriend about a year and a half now and I love him very much but he never wants to have sex with me. When we first met, we couldn't keep our hands off each other but over time it not only ...

My Boyfriend Uses Me

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Wednesday, September 24th, 2014
I woke up today to my boyfriend forcing himself inside of me, it's not the first time. When it happens I don't say or do anything, if I did he would only make it hurt more. He seems to get off on my physical pain, ...

Disturbing Dreams

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Tuesday, September 23rd, 2014
Let me start by saying I would never hurt my son in any way. I have a son who is almost two and I have had a few disturbing dreams about him. In these dreams I'm beginning to perform sex acts on complete strangers then ...

Transference with Therapist

By Kristina Randle, Ph.D., LCSW on Monday, September 22nd, 2014
I've been seeing my therapist for several months now (who is male) and it's really going well. I've been neglected almost my entire life and it's great to have someone that listens and understands. But I've noticed I've been having feelings for him. I did ...

My Boyfriend Has Sex with Me when I’m Asleep

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Sunday, September 21st, 2014
My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly 5 years, since our junior year of high school. We have not had sex for various reasons. He is religious, and I suffer from panic attacks during intimacy. We used to fool around in high school, ...

I Lied to My Fiance about My Past

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Tuesday, September 16th, 2014
From the U.S.: My fiance and I have been together for 4 years. When we first got together he told me everything about his past (I didn't ask him) and asked me to do the same. From early on he would always tell me "girls ...

Robbed of Control Over My Life

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Monday, September 15th, 2014
From Germany: I’ve been feeling like I was robbed of control over my life by my ex-girlfriend made me avoid sex with all women. About 5 years ago, about a month after breaking up with my ex-girlfriend, she contacted me to let me know she took ...
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