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Inability to Have Sex

Since I can remember, I’ve always thought of myself as unattractive. At school I was considered undesirable and teased indirectly about my looks. In my later teens men started taking an interest and I became sexually active and happy, eventually entering my first relationship which lasted 4 years. This relationship ended about a year ago and though I am over it, my ex dragged out the ending and it became quite bitter with another...
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Do I Have Dermatillomania?

I am a non-gender binary 15 year old. I’ve recently learned of dermatillomania and think I do have it. I was wondering if you could provide me with your opinion? I was sexually abused when I was 12 and ever since then I’ve had a compulsion to picking my skin. It’s become an obsession. I’ll sit in front of the mirror for hours on end just picking and picking. I have scabs and scars...
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My Adult Son Now Says He Is Really a Girl

From the US: Due to hypopituitarism my son makes little to no hormones. When it was discovered he makes some female hormones, but no male hormones I was assured by the doctors that it didn’t mean he should have been female. He always seemed rather feminine in his behaviors even as a young child. He has always said he is asexual. My thoughts have been once he was on the proper testosterone therapy he...
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Is It Normal for a 9-Year-Old to Think about Sex?

My son just turned nine and has been becoming very curious sexually. I know this is a time when he will begin having feelings that are new to him. But 2 years ago he was caught rubbing himself against his brother in bed. My husband and I calmly explained that it was inappropriate to do that to anyone. Then we explained to his brother to always tell if anyone including family touches you that...
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I Dress as a Woman

I dress as a woman and have for 30 plus yrs. The drive to do so is constant. I love the feel and the look. I hate this just want to be and go from there. Help. Find myself changing when I get home, and sleeping in a bra with breasts and panties at night. Doesn’t turn me on anymore, just feels like normal. A: Thank you for reaching out to us here at...
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My Boyfriend Has Slept with 50 Women

From Germany: I hope you can help me a little. I’m struggling to deal with my boyfriend’s past relationships and infidelities and I feel like it’s destroying what was a great relationship. We have been together for a year and a half, we have lived together for a year and for the past 5 months I have lived with him in his native Germany. I am 33 and he is 38. My boyfriend has...
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My Wife Connects with Men Online

My wife continues to connect with men online but says she does it to bring back passion into our relationship. My wife and I are high school sweethearts and have been together for 30 years (married for 20). Sex has never been very important to her and we are intimate a dozen or less times a year. We deeply care for each other and I have suppressed my own sexual needs to accommodate her...
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My Past Is Eating Me Alive & I May Be Depressed

I am 16 year old guy who considers himself to be straight. I know you will probably think I’m some kind of sick weirdo after what I’m about to say, but I have to get it off my chest. I used to have this really weird fetish. I used to go on omegle (online video chat room), look for an older guy (40s-50s), talk dirty in the chat and masturbate while he masturbated. This...
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I Can’t Stand Myself Any More

I am married for a year and a half, I found out that my husband is cheating on me like 3 months ago, recently also I discovered that he is cheating on me before we got married like for four years and not with one girl. I don’t know how he can manage all of them at the same time none of us knows this my second marriage am shocked he does not know...
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Boyfriend with Online Sex Addictions

My boyfriend indulges himself in online sex chats, encounters, engagements. He does it secretly and doesn’t like to have sex with me. We’ve been together 2 years. Does he get a satisfaction from it? a thrill? I don’t think he has physically cheated but why the online relationships? Is this a psychological issue that stems from childhood? is he aware of the problem? And can it be cured? (age 40, from US) A: First...
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On Again Off Again

I’m going trough a bad break up of 8 years and trying to cope with this on again off again relationship. I’ve been dating this guy for 8 years. He is my first and only love. But the problem is that for 8 years I’ve been in an off again on again relationship and it is driving me crazy. Whenever things get tough or he makes a mistake or I make a mistake we...
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