Relationships Articles

My Husband Committed Suicide 3 Weeks Ago

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Tuesday, October 7th, 2014
My husband and I shared a long distance relationship for 6 years due to his employment 2500 miles away and my responsibilities here. We were married for 3 of those 6 years. We did the back and forth thing for the 6 years and finally ...

Wanting to Get Back with My Ex…

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Sunday, October 5th, 2014
18 from England: Me and my ex broke up about two months ago, it was mutual. It wasn't working. But he text me yesterday asking how I was, etc! The conversation went on for ages! I found out from a friend that he is seeing this ...

I Fear Losing a Really Close Friend

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Saturday, October 4th, 2014
From Malyasia: I have a friend whom I have grown really fond of and he is more like a brother to me than a friend. My problem is that, I have this fear of losing him because I don't have a brother of my own ...

I Am Living in a Sexless Marriage

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Thursday, October 2nd, 2014
From the U.S.: I am about 6.5 months pregnant, and since I have gotten pregnant my husband has refused sex all but one time early on. I am very frustrated. He says it is because it is weird to think about with the baby, but ...

My Boyfriend Won’t Have Sex with Me

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Wednesday, October 1st, 2014
I've been seeing my boyfriend about a year and a half now and I love him very much but he never wants to have sex with me. When we first met, we couldn't keep our hands off each other but over time it not only ...

I’m Having Trouble Making Friends

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Tuesday, September 30th, 2014
From the U.S: So, i started high school freshman year 3 days ago, and I have made 0 friends. Before this, I went to an extremely small private school and this year I am in a giant public high school. Anyway, my mom told me ...

After 10 Months Boyfriend Won’t Spend Time with My Kids

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Monday, September 29th, 2014
I met my boyfriend about a year ago. He was coming out of a bad 6 month relationship. To start I need to say, from what he has told me, he has been scared from almost every relationship. Even his parents. When I met him ...

I’m Really Mean to Boyfriend

By Holly Counts, Psy.D. on Monday, September 29th, 2014
My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. For the past 2-3 years I have been really mean to him and I constantly hit him. He's been telling me that I need to control that and stop. But I cant seem ...

My Step Kids Hate Me

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Friday, September 26th, 2014
From the U.S: I am married and living with 6 step kids ranging in age from 5-18. I have done all I can to be a good step parent. Their mother makes it very hard because she does not discipline the kids nor does she teach ...

Fear of Relationships

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Thursday, September 25th, 2014
From Lithuania. Hello, I am a 21 year old student. I've been suffering from anxiety disorder, social phobia and have been taking antidepressants (escitalopram) for several years now (I had a small break,about a half year, but at the beginning of the first study year ...

Mother Treats Me Differently because I Have an Older Boyfriend

By Holly Counts, Psy.D. on Thursday, September 25th, 2014
My parents recently found out about my boyfriend who is older than me. I am 19 and he is 32. We met three years ago and we clicked right away, but we were aware of the legal issues that would arise if we ...

My Boyfriend Uses Me

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Wednesday, September 24th, 2014
I woke up today to my boyfriend forcing himself inside of me, it's not the first time. When it happens I don't say or do anything, if I did he would only make it hurt more. He seems to get off on my physical pain, ...