Personality Articles

Concerned about My 4 1/2 Year Old

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Thursday, March 26th, 2015
Last August, shortly after turning 4, we had an issue with our daughter drinking her own urine. Her bedroom is in the attic and we have a gate on her door to stop her falling down the stairs at night, so she had a potty ...

I Can’t Stand Myself Any More

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Wednesday, March 25th, 2015
I am married for a year and a half, I found out that my husband is cheating on me like 3 months ago, recently also I discovered that he is cheating on me before we got married like for four years and not with one ...

Younger/Older Gay Relationship

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Tuesday, March 17th, 2015
I'm gay and I have a preference for older men. I'm putting that out there first. I met a man who was a very nice, handsome man who I truly do care for. We've only been in a relationship together for 7 months, but we've had ...

My BPD and Son’s Apathy about It

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Sunday, March 15th, 2015
I’ve had chronic depression starting in childhood with an emotionally absent mother. I was recently diagnosed with PTSD/BPD by new therapist. Christmas marked the beginning of this debacle. which set up the disaster and now my BPD, etc is a Category 5 Tropical Storm. A ...

A Friend Is Mentally Ill

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Friday, March 13th, 2015
I have a friend, she is a girl, she is not talking with me properly from 1 month, but she says that I normally love you as a brother like before, but she's not even speaking or responding to the message I kept. She has ...

How to Kick Out an Abusive Partner

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Friday, March 6th, 2015
My partner of 6 years is an emotionally abusive alcoholic, who is currently on probation for his fourth DUI. He has no car, no driver's license, and only recently got a part-time job after more than 2 years of self-imposed unemployment. Even though he is ...

My Mother Is Going Crazy

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Wednesday, March 4th, 2015
I'm not talking about hearing voices in the head because thankfully she's not that crazy, but recently she has some major belief issues. She recently got sucked into this whole "4 dimensions," she truly and legitimately believes that her "soul wavelength" is equal to that ...

How Do You Know when You Have Recovered?

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Monday, March 2nd, 2015
From the U.S.: Early this year in April I decided to try Molly for the first time. The high was amazing but it then led to a horrible comedown filled with anxiety and depression. I recovered from this but then 1 month later randomly got ...

Will He Ever Love Me as Much as I Love Him?

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Saturday, February 21st, 2015
I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now and I'm head over heels for him. He on the other hand recently told me that he knows in his head and his heart that he feels love for me, but he isn't able ...

My Dad Died, But All I Feel Is Relief

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Thursday, February 19th, 2015
My Dad passed away a little over a year ago after a 13-year battle with cancer. Everyone in my family mourns him, but I never grieved and all I feel is relief. It doesn't hurt me the way it does my siblings...it really doesn't hurt ...

Stuck During Public Speaking

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Tuesday, February 17th, 2015
I am suffering from a serious psychological problem at present I am pursuing MBA from a respected B-School I am good in study but when I publicly speak, giving presentation I badly stuck and sometimes even not able to speak a single word despite of ...

Horrible Self-Esteem Issues

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Sunday, February 15th, 2015
My name is Alejandro, I am 18 year old guy from Mexico. I live in a small town in the middle of nowhere, I am gay and I deeply hate myself. I was trying to deny it for many many years and it just won't ...