General Articles

I Don’t Know if I’m Depressed

By Holly Counts, Psy.D. on Friday, October 31st, 2014
I took all the tests and most of them say I'm depressed. But I don't feel sad! I have a nice family and I get good grades. I'm homeschooled so I have no bullying problems or self hate problems. But I get suicidal. ...

Dating A Married Man

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Thursday, October 30th, 2014
I am dating a married man and I want to end it but don't know how I have been seeing a married man for a month. I am falling for everything he says and does and know that in the end I will be the one ...

Child Visitation

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Thursday, October 30th, 2014
From the U.S.: My husband and I are separated and he just bought a new home and is looking to start taking our 2.5 year old overnight 1 or 2x during the week. I am TOTALLY against during the week because of school, and I ...

Is My Son Misdiagnosed or Is There Something I Should Be Asking His Counselor About?

By Kristina Randle, Ph.D., LCSW on Thursday, October 30th, 2014
I am scared of my son, he shows no emotion, he kills our pets, he attacks me, he stares through me, he started a bonfire in our attic while everyone was asleep, we all came close to dying, he shows his private parts to his ...

My Boyfriend Is Secretive about His Finances

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Wednesday, October 29th, 2014
From the U.S.: I'm having reservations about marrying my boyfriend because of his secrecy of his financial situation. After 2 years in our relationship, my boyfriend asked if I wanted to get married. I have thought about it but we seem so far away on ...

Don’t Know What to Do

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Tuesday, October 28th, 2014
I am struggling with daily life in a way that I am sure isn't healthy. I don't have any friends and the ones I do have, I don't even like. They do drugs and skip school and just make terrible life decisions that I want ...

I Feel Caged in My Own Body

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Monday, October 27th, 2014
From a 19-year-old woman in S. Africa: Recently I got out of a 4-year drug influenced relationship but the feelings I had for him faded away after about a year but he kept me caged in because of the drugs, I was his money bank. ...

Am I Suffering from Depression?

By Kristina Randle, Ph.D., LCSW on Monday, October 27th, 2014
Lately I feel so sad or lonely and I really don't know why, but now I have suicidal thoughts and I cut myself, I still don't want anyone to worry about someone like me, I don't want to be a burden even though I really ...

My Wife Can’t Leave Her Lover

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Sunday, October 26th, 2014
We are married for 10 years, three kids (8, 5 and 2 years old). My wife did not work 4 years ago. When she got her first job, she felt in love with her boss (she is 30, he is 55 yo). After about 6 ...

I Have Brief Depressive Episodes

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Sunday, October 26th, 2014
From the UK: I'm 16. For the past 2-3 months I've been experiencing these episodes of sever depression they generally only last for an hour or two, however the frequency ranges from once or twice a day to once every few days, at first it ...

I’m Really Depressed — Maybe Bipolar

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Friday, October 24th, 2014
I'm eighteen years old, and I hate myself so much. I feel like I can't do anything right, that whatever I do, it won't be good enough. I'm taking a gap year in order to save for college, but these "I'm not good enough" thoughts ...

I Am Trying to Save My Marriage

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Friday, October 24th, 2014
From the U.S. I'm 33 and I have a few issues. The worst one I have is lack of control over my anger. I have said some things to my wife that I am ashamed of. My family has told me that it was out ...