Borderline Articles

Are Borderlines Chameleon’s Who Are Afraid to Be Themselves So They Change Depending on the People They Are With?

By Kristina Randle, Ph.D., LCSW on Friday, June 6th, 2014
I feel like that I'm never myself around the people that I'm with. I have BPD, so I usually act a certain way when I'm around certain people. When I say "act" I mean, it's like I become them. I unknowingly imitate their mannerisms, I ...

Thought Insertion and Borderline Personality Disorder

By Kristina Randle, Ph.D., LCSW on Wednesday, June 4th, 2014
I have borderline personality disorder. I've recently come across what thought insertion is and I think I may have that. I feel like there are thought from someone else that are in my head. I know they aren't mine because they are a man's thoughts. ...

My Mother Refuses Mental Help or that Anything Is Wrong with Her

By Kristina Randle, Ph.D., LCSW on Sunday, June 1st, 2014
My mom is the second child out of three and is deaf, (both of my parents are deaf and as result, I have felt with most matters since I was young). She gets frequent and very violent outbursts at times and has even gone as ...

My Sister Is Sick

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Friday, May 23rd, 2014
I’m dealing with sister suffering from anorexia nervosa, bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder. My sister months ago had a break-up with her bf. Since then she started dating many guys and then met a model(her current bf). Nowadays she has undergone a drastic change ...

Delusions

By Kristina Randle, Ph.D., LCSW on Friday, May 9th, 2014
I have ptsd and borderline. This winter, I had a phase of four months in which I had delusions. The delusions entailed having somebody else's presence in my head, up to the point where this presence (while being in my head) wanted to kill me ...

My Wife Has BPD

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Friday, April 25th, 2014
From the U.S.: my wife had border line personality disorder and will not take her meds. her symptoms are getting bad. she had expressed thoughts of hurting herself and has been doing self destructive things, including cheating, cutting and obsession with white power groups. btw ...

Psychotic Episodes 2-3 Times A Year

By Kristina Randle, Ph.D., LCSW on Sunday, April 6th, 2014
I have borderline personality disorder and have been receiving treatment for 8 yrs. Many things have improved. I have episodes 2-3 times a year that I have thoughts in my head that beat me down with criticisms, insults. Very harsh things. I fight them with ...

Stopped Meds a Year Ago and Struggling to Work

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
Several years ago I was diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder and after several hospital admissions this was changed to Type 2 Bipolar. About a year ago I gave birth to a son and I managed with mild depression to manage but due to interference of ...

My Daughter Needs Inpatient DBT

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Tuesday, March 25th, 2014
From the U.S.: I Have a 21 yr old daughter needing treatment for severe BPD. Need in house treatment with step down options. Prefer facility with tranquil outdoor settings. Thanks, A: I'm sorry. We can't endorse a particular program - mainly because we aren't familiar with every ...

How Do I Change My Attachment Style?

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Saturday, March 22nd, 2014
From S. Africa: I am a 20-year-old female that has had attachment issues since early childhood. As a child I was also selectively mute. I started going for therapy when I was about 5. While I am very confident when speaking now, my attachment issues ...

I’m Concerned About a Student

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Saturday, March 22nd, 2014
From England: For the last 3 months I have covered a class as the teacher is on maternity leave. Obviously as a teacher you notice certain things about your students. There is a girl in my class and it's fair to say she isn't happy. ...

Where To Go From Here

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
Sorry, this is going to be a long winded one. Last February I approached my GP to ask for a referral to a Psychiatrist as I thought I was suffering from Bipolar disorder. After an evaluation, he'd given a diagnosis of Cyclothymia. I got referred to ...