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My Boyfriend Wants a Threesome with His Ex-Fling

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Thursday, March 27th, 2014
My boyfriend/baby’s father has always asked for a threesome. I declined at first only because it was to soon for my comfort. I’ve agreed to have a threesome with him now simply because the idea of it sparks my interest. But the girl he suggested ...

Boyfriend Still Keeps In Touch with Exes

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Wednesday, March 26th, 2014
My boyfriend (61yrs. old-like me) keeps in touch with some of his ex-girlfriends (he never married) on Facebook and even though I'm on too, his girlfriends don't know he has a girlfriend--they (some are married) make references about old times, how handsome he sill is, ...

Moving On In Life as I Age

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Wednesday, March 26th, 2014
For the past few years I seem to be having a real difficult time accepting the fact that people move on in life, even if that means without me. I will explain briefly. Around 3 years ago I moved away from a city I lived in ...

I Backstabbed a Coworker

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Wednesday, March 26th, 2014
I'm upset with myself. When faced with situations where I should be loyal, I often spill the beans to protect my own interests or to put the blame on someone else. Then I feel terrible about it. There was a situation at work. I was ...

Possible Sexual Abuse

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Tuesday, March 25th, 2014
I'll describe what's bugging me in a few paragraphs, questions at the end. About a year ago when I was at my friend's house, at night when everyone else was asleep (he probably thought I was too), my friend's dad kept uncovering certain parts of my ...

Emotional Shut Down

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Tuesday, March 25th, 2014
Problem with being emotional shut off. I have a problem where I’m completely shut down, I don’t have pain, anger sometimes even happiness. Once I get to a point of sadness or anger its like a switch and I don’t feel anything. I was all ...

Fear Holding Me Back

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Sunday, March 23rd, 2014
Hello everyone -- thank you for reading this post. Let me start off by saying that I am an A student at one of the best engineering universities in my region, if not the country. I am proud of my accomplishments, and I know that ...

Progressive Dream

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Sunday, March 23rd, 2014
For 6 months now, around the time where I went my current relationship, I've been having a continuing dream where I'm being chased by a group of murderers. In every continuation of the dream, I would always meet someone I know, and I'd ask for ...

How to Address a ‘Husband’s Female Friend’ Situation?

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Sunday, March 23rd, 2014
My husband has a female friend and they have been close before we got married. They have helped each other in many of their problems and I knew how their friendship was. They've supported each other in issues like death in the family, financial problems, ...

Paranoid?

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Wednesday, March 19th, 2014
My close friends say I'm being paranoid, while another says its a mild form of schizophrenia. It kind if just started happening when I moved to Canada about two years ago. I'm always caught up on things like: -People watching me through my living room window (there's ...

Fiancé’s Deadbeat Dad Is in the Picture

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Wednesday, March 19th, 2014
Let me start by saying I love my fiancé. He's my best friend and partner. We've been together for 3 and half years and recently got engaged. His mom has always been overbearing (he's an only child to a single mom) and until recently his ...

What Am I?

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Tuesday, March 18th, 2014
I will try and establish all of my issues directly; I am currently seeing a therapist, who I frequently lie to. 1) I cannot sleep through the night and subsequently spend all day and most of the night on the Internet. Once I get to sleep ...