Author Archive for Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP

Thoughts of Suicide and a Little Bit of Something Else

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Sunday, November 2nd, 2014
I've felt sad for the most part of my life. I could hardly remember a time I was happy. I've been having suicidal thoughts since I was a teenager. I've always felt this emptiness inside me that's like a black hole sucking the life and ...

Cutting and Pressured by Friend/Life

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Saturday, November 1st, 2014
My friend has been trying to tell my family that I cut. She cuts too and sees a therapist. She will not stop telling me to do something about it when I don't want to tell anyone. I'm not the type of person to share ...

Dating A Married Man

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Thursday, October 30th, 2014
I am dating a married man and I want to end it but don't know how I have been seeing a married man for a month. I am falling for everything he says and does and know that in the end I will be the one ...

Partner Cheating

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Wednesday, October 29th, 2014
My partner cheated on me last March 2014, when I found out last May 2014 they stopped. But since then, I don’t trust my partner. We're still living together & we fight a lot. I have a feeling that they still have communication although all ...

Don’t Know What to Do

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Tuesday, October 28th, 2014
I am struggling with daily life in a way that I am sure isn't healthy. I don't have any friends and the ones I do have, I don't even like. They do drugs and skip school and just make terrible life decisions that I want ...

My Wife Can’t Leave Her Lover

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Sunday, October 26th, 2014
We are married for 10 years, three kids (8, 5 and 2 years old). My wife did not work 4 years ago. When she got her first job, she felt in love with her boss (she is 30, he is 55 yo). After about 6 ...

I’m Really Depressed — Maybe Bipolar

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Friday, October 24th, 2014
I'm eighteen years old, and I hate myself so much. I feel like I can't do anything right, that whatever I do, it won't be good enough. I'm taking a gap year in order to save for college, but these "I'm not good enough" thoughts ...

Self-Harming

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Thursday, October 23rd, 2014
From Terhan: Hi, First i have to say that I cannot speak English well so excuse me for my writing faults. I am 24-year-old girl, I have a problem that I think is growing every day! I am so hateful. I hate myself and some people in ...

Relationship Recovery

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Tuesday, October 21st, 2014
From Dubai: I was engaged to someone I love for a year; I love him so much and couldn't imagine my life without him. I have struggled a lot emotionally due to the loss of my father last year and he was supportive and always there, ...

My Boyfriend May Be Lying to Me

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Sunday, October 19th, 2014
My boyfriend of almost a year. (My first serious relationship) I’ve had some suspicions that he has been lying too me about things. Not huge things but a lie is a lie. So one day we were talking and I told him I knew he ...

Why Am I Never Content?

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Friday, October 17th, 2014
I started dating my husband when I was 15, I am 27 now. We have been married and living together for 2 years now, and I should be happy... Right? I mean, I have all the things a woman my age should want... but I ...

My Girlfriend Hates Herself and Can’t Move on from Her Ex

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Wednesday, October 15th, 2014
From Indonesia: Hi, I have been together with my girlfriend for over than 2 years. And now we were in long distance relationship. It has never been an issue for us because we trust and love each other. I met her when she and I were ...