Author Archive for Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA

Cheating Father

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA on Wednesday, May 9th, 2012
I’m sixteen and have a 13 year old brother and nine year old sister. I discovered text messages on my dad's phone implying he’s cheating on my mother. My parents are pastors, and have an important place of ministry in the country. Hundreds of people ...
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I Can’t Forget or Forgive

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA on Tuesday, May 1st, 2012
Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years and we have a 4 month old together and I also have a child by my high school sweetheart. My present boyfriend and whom I hope to marry has lied to me about talking ...
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Sexually Confused

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA on Monday, April 30th, 2012
I'm 18 and for some time I have been debating whether or not I'm gay, bi, or neither. The thing is that I am really turned on to other males from a physical perspective, but the thought of having sex with another male isn't all ...
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Confused on Sexuality

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA on Sunday, April 29th, 2012
I feel like I'm bisexual. But sometimes I'm not really entirely sure. I've had feelings for a girl before, same for a guy but not as strong as it was for this girl. I've kissed a girl before, but never a guy. And I can ...
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Afraid of Men

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA on Saturday, April 28th, 2012
I just realized today I have a serious fear of men. Any man whom I could potentially be involved with. I am 21 years old. Ever since I was small, I was told not to talk to them. My family was strict about this. Even ...
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Clashing with Grandmother’s Beliefs

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA on Friday, April 27th, 2012
My grandmother was an anti-war / anti-nuclear power activist and protester when she was young, and these beliefs and religion have been a major part of her life. She is 86 now and has become even more religious in the past year because of many ...
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Husband Cheated

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA on Thursday, April 26th, 2012
Me and my now husband started our relationship at the end of February 2010, and got married mid-april 2011.. Its a different marriage as he lives in Portsmouth due to work commitments and I am moving down to Portsmouth to be with him in September ...
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Is Fiance Mentally Ill?

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA on Wednesday, April 25th, 2012
I have been dating my boyfriend (age 31) on and off for almost 3 years. Most of the time we have a very loving, affectionate and deeply connected, positive relationship. However, several times a year we go through shorter periods of extremely rocky times that ...
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Sleep Problems

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA on Tuesday, April 24th, 2012
Because of my work as a nurse, I have to get up at 5:00am. It is just the anticipation of this unpleasant hour of waking that seems to keep me from having uninterrupted sleep. I tend to fall asleep easily, sleep for three hours, then ...
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Fiance Won’t Trust Me

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA on Monday, April 23rd, 2012
I screwed up big time. My fiancée and I have been together for 5 years and have an 18-month-old daughter. For the past few months I've been feeling increasingly isolated (I'm an at home mom and he's gone with work or projects). ...
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Sudden Extreme Tiredness

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA on Sunday, April 22nd, 2012
Dear therapist, I have type 1 Bipolar disorder and have been fairly stable lately. My mood swings have been fairly mild, but I have been bothered by this sudden extreme tiredness that overwhelms me every now and then. I was just sitting at work when, ...
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Embarrassed at the Office

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA on Saturday, April 7th, 2012
I know this is an odd question, but I'm wondering how to deal with the embarrassment of excessive gas within my workplace. Even though my stomach wasn't bothering me and I didn't feel myself pass gas, I guess I did and it smelled awful and ...
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