Only Aroused by Men

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker

From the U.S.: I am a straight woman who loves my husband, and am sexually attracted to him; however, I am only aroused by him or homosexual men together. Women with men do not arouse me, women with women do not arouse me, only men together, and my husband. Why? I don’t understand it.

A: It looks to me like you are aroused by male sexuality. I think you can stop worrying about it and simply enjoy it.

I wish you well.
Dr. Marie




Last reviewed: By John M. Grohol, Psy.D. on 12 Jul 2014

APA Reference
Hartwell-Walker, D. (2014). Only Aroused by Men. Psych Central. Retrieved on January 31, 2015, from