Archives for March, 2014 - Page 2

I Feel Depressed & So Does My Mom

My mom is all I have in life… My father abandoned us so now we have no male and I am the only child. Well let’s start off with my mother. She has been really depressed lately. All she has been doing is laying in bed crying. I feel horrible! She take me out for food and she still supports me in school but other than that it is just me… That brings me...
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She Wants a Relationship with a Mother Who Hates Her

From the : After a lifetime of emotional, physical, and sexual abuse, my mom has stopped talking to me for 2 years now. Since I was born my mother hated me and the family knew it. She spread stories about me that were untrue and as a result I no longer have a family. I believe she has NPD. I was her scapegoat. My sister had her 3 children taken from her by the...
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Boyfriend Lies and Has No Remorse

From the I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 7 years and when things are easy everything is perfect. My issue is that he lies and gets mad when I catch him doing things and wants nothing to do with it. I caught him seeing a girl daily for a year two years later, skyping girls from our church, talking to a girl from chat roulette while we took a break and held...
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Supporting an Unappreciative Mom

From the : My mother and I have been coming to heads more and more often and I don’t feel like I have anyone I can turn to for help. Our latest fight was last night. Perhaps it’s best I give you some back-story first. I don’t have a lot of family. By that, I mean, I have people who are physically related to be but have chosen, from when I was a small...
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Sister-In-Law Sent a Truly Hate-Filled Email

Background information. I have two brothers that married later in life and each has one child. One brother(at 50 years of age)along with his wife grasp the responsibility of being a parent. The other brother (at 55 years of age) and his wife (50 years old) haven’t the foggiest clue on how to set boundaries for their child (almost 4 years old). They allow the child to wander around unsupervised and sometimes even run...
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My Boyfriend Hasn’t Said He Loves Me

From the : So my boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and almost 5 months. He is 22 and so am I. He still hasn’t told me he loves me and I’m curious to as why. We moved in together after a year and 2 months. Since our one year we have not had sex, or even made out. I just need advice to why? Please Help! A: My question is:...
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Sex Question

Hi, I was wondering if you could answer a sex question. My fiance has had trouble getting it up lately, and getting excited for sex, even emotionally. I suggested he talk to a therapist, since he will not talk to me. He wants me to attend therapy as well, but I feel uncomfortable with that, also I know this sounds mean and I know there’s me to blame as well, but I just feel...
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My Boyfriend Wants a Threesome with His Ex-Fling

My boyfriend/baby’s father has always asked for a threesome. I declined at first only because it was to soon for my comfort. I’ve agreed to have a threesome with him now simply because the idea of it sparks my interest. But the girl he suggested is someone who he has had sex with (they weren’t dating though) previously and is also. A close friend of his family. At first I was okay with it....
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What Do You Do When You’re Lonely?

From São Paulo: What can I do if I have literally no friends and no social life? No one that I can talk to about how I’m feeling and a shoulder to cry on? What can I do if I have no one to call me at night just to say: “I love #8221; No one to hold me and tell me it will be ok. No one to one to cuddle with. I...
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Boyfriend Still Keeps In Touch with Exes

My boyfriend (61yrs. old-like me) keeps in touch with some of his ex-girlfriends (he never married) on Facebook and even though I’m on too, his girlfriends don’t know he has a girlfriend–they (some are married) make references about old times, how handsome he sill is, #8211;then he always “likes” these comments!–they private message him too! Even though he tells me, I get upset that they don’t know about me–I have no problem that he...
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Moving On In Life as I Age

For the past few years I seem to be having a real difficult time accepting the fact that people move on in life, even if that means without me. I will explain briefly. Around 3 years ago I moved away from a city I lived in for 13 years. I left behind so many friends, at least I thought I did. Using social media I have tried to stay in contact but I feel...
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I Backstabbed a Coworker

I’m upset with myself. When faced with situations where I should be loyal, I often spill the beans to protect my own interests or to put the blame on someone else. Then I feel terrible about it. There was a situation at work. I was going to take a whole bunch of students to the staff hockey game, a coworker who I like very much didn’t think it was fair that I would be...
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