Archives for October, 2013 - Page 3

Boyfriend Losing Interest

my age is 22 years .. me and and my boyfriend have completed 8 years of our relationship. he loves me a lot and i love him more than my life. MY PARENTS AND HIS PARENTS HAVE AGREED TO OUR RELATIONSHIP but from few months i am feeling that he is losing interest in he shouts on me, he abuse me for no reason, he doesn’t call me only i used to call...
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Husband of 23 Years Addicted

My husband and I have been married 23 yrs and have 2 children together (1 -18yrs old still at home). He had back surgery 13 yrs ago and has been addicted to pain pills ever since. I’m so done! I have tried everything I can think of to help him, but he really doesn’t seem at all interested in changing and I’m at whit’s end. I’m so dead inside and our relationship is so...
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Intentional Forgetfulness

The question I have today has bothered me for a long time. While I was normal for most of my life, the past few years have been evolving many problems for me. For example, I have had numerous problems with skills such as driving. Once it had been an easy, low-attention activity but now I notice things are changing. Now, instead of driving being second nature, I am starting to overly concentrate on things...
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In-Laws Consistently Treat Wife Less Favorably

We’re looking for guidance around being able to resolve issues with my parent in laws. Albeit perhaps we have to accept there’s too much water under the bridge and too much denial to make any purposeful change. My wife & I have been together for near 20 years. When we got together I noticed a significant differential in the treatment between her brothers’ and her for which I remained silent on, I mentioned it...
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Friend Has Odd Delusion

A friend and I were hanging out one day and she decided to tell me that she is part hellhound. Thinking she was playing around, I laughed it off. Deciding to ‘play along’, I asked her how she knew. She replied by saying that someone told her this, apparently these ‘special beings’ could detect other special beings (something of the sort). I asked her whether she really could trust the words of some person...
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Pregnant and Feeling Abandoned

I have been with my boyfriend on and off for 10 years since we were 19/22 we are now 29/32 I’m older. We had resolved most of our issues and were in a great place together. Last November he had decided that he was ready to be a father and threw my Birth Control pill out the window. We didn’t get pregnant for a few months till Feb. 2013. during this same time he...
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Are Voices I’m Hearing Normal?

Hello, I have multiple voices in my head, The voices sound like and suggest what i should do. For example when i wake up in the morning, its like i talk to my self and it (the voice) says “you might aswell get up or you’ll be late to work” and another voice will be like “5 more minutes should be ok” Then its like i can choose or just ignore them. Sometimes they...
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Mistrustful for No Reason

I’ve been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half and I’m deeply in love with him. The first few months of the relationship were blissful, as they should be, and that hasn’t changed, but sometime after month 4 and saying “I love you” for the first time to each other, my brain’s been a bit wacky. I have had millions of weird questions pertaining to his past relationships and his feelings...
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Stay or Go?

I don’t know what to choose – stay home and continue my studies or move in with my boyfriend in another country. My boyfriend wants me to go there and study. I also wanted to continue my studies in Romania, join a student organization, be a volunteer, travel to USA with the program Work and Travel and gain knowledge by my own. I feel too young to commit . I feel like if I...
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Is Creating a World in Your Head Really a Problem?

I guess as long as I can remember I have created worlds with characters that seem to have cameras following them everywhere in my head. but it would always seem as if the characters were real. they had personalities, pet peeves and even conversations with me. but their is always a camera watching. their is always a audience. the audience doesn’t interact, they just watch. I tend to get involved with this world that...
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Relationship Issue

So here is a synopsis of my problem: I’m a 24 year old female in a relationship with a 42 year old male. He came into my life at such a vulnerable time one year ago, when i was in major need of a loving genuine person to care for me. He swept me off my feet and showered me with mature conversations, romantic dinners and trips, gifts, love, and so much more. I...
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Daughter’s Husband is a Sex Addict

My daughter is a newlywed. Her husband is a recently confessed sex addict. He has his white coin from SAA – I’ve seen it. But….his behavior doesn’t smack of someone trying to recover. He disappears for “meetings” well before the scheduled time and doesn’t come home until late into the night. He has a new best friend – woman – who has been through AA, who he claims is helping him learn to be...
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