Archive for July, 2012

Relationship Future

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Friday, July 13th, 2012
Hi Therapists, I have a couple of questions I am married since 2006 but I move in with my husband before we got married and we have a daughter 10 years old. Still today I don't feel that we are a complete family maybe is ...

Depressed over a Mistake

By Kristina Randle, Ph.D., LCSW on Friday, July 13th, 2012
Well it started in high school i was an honors student and was getting ready to move off into the real world and for some reason made a rash decision that a commercial dive school aka a trade school was what i wanted to do. ...

Broken Communication

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Thursday, July 12th, 2012
I am 20, my love is 25. We have always been very happy together, and been described as 'cut from the same cloth,' and our relationship is very sacred and we protect it dearly. Recently, he has encountered some serious problems (living situation, job ...

Nobody Likes My Boyfriend

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Thursday, July 12th, 2012
I have known my boyfriend for seven years we dated at 14 and then again at 18. Thru the time since I was 18 these are the things that happen: he went to jail, he lived with me and my parents and eventually the two ...

Internal Conflict

By Kristina Randle, Ph.D., LCSW on Wednesday, July 11th, 2012
I'm not sure how to start this. Since I was a kid I realized I had the ability to manipulate those around me. I took advantage of it and my mother and family suffered for it. I have an extremely hard time relating to others ...

What Do I Do Now?

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Wednesday, July 11th, 2012
I almost don't know where to begin. My wife and I have had a rocky relationship as of late, but it recently took a turn for the worse... a big turn for the worse. I recently had a discussion with her about my leaving. She ...

Is There Any Hope For Me To Get Better?

By Kristina Randle, Ph.D., LCSW on Tuesday, July 10th, 2012
I told my best friend of 12 years goodbye a couple days ago because I don’t see the need to have friends. I have no desire to be around her or anyone else. She was one of my last friends to go and I couldn’t ...

Changed after Basic Training

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Tuesday, July 10th, 2012
So Im 25 years old and I completed basic training in March. Thankfully enough I started my training really close to home so I was able to see my boyfriend/fiance on the weekends. Prior to me leaving for basic training, i remember loving nothing more than ...

Should I Worry about My Husband’s Fetish?

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Monday, July 9th, 2012
MY HUSBAND IS A CHRISTIAN MAN AND HE HAS A STOCKING FETISH. WE ARE OPEN ABOUT IT. I WEAR THEM FOR HIM ALL THE TIME. WE HAVE VERY ACTIVE SEX LIFE AND GREAT MARRIAGE. I JUST HATE THAT HE LOOKS UP STOCKING SITES ON ...

I Want to Kill but My Problem Seems Different than Others

By Kristina Randle, Ph.D., LCSW on Monday, July 9th, 2012
I have searched the site as you recommend and I haven't found anything like this. First off I haven't killed anyone yet because I'm not stupid. I want to kill and not just people who have slighted me (even thought the worms deserve it) I ...

Erection Problems

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP on Sunday, July 8th, 2012
I have been with my bf for 10 months. In that amount of time he has only been hard maybe 5 times without needing manual stimulation. We have sex at least once a day, but it’s getting so old for me to have to give ...

Tired of Being Just Friends

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker on Sunday, July 8th, 2012
For a long time now I've been severely depressed I'm constantly being told "lets just be friends". At first it didnt phase me and Id think it was them not me but over time when I've only gotten rejections after rejection. I started to realize ...