Archives for July, 2012 - Page 4

Relationship Future

Hi Therapists, I have a couple of questions I am married since 2006 but I move in with my husband before we got married and we have a daughter 10 years old. Still today I don’t feel that we are a complete family maybe is me. He does’t want to have anything together like bank accounts, house bills, car insurance, etc. I am his second marriage sometime I think that is the reason, but...
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Depressed over a Mistake

Well it started in high school i was an honors student and was getting ready to move off into the real world and for some reason made a rash decision that a commercial dive school aka a trade school was what i wanted to do. However when the day came i began to get scared and it was not untill i moved to florida and got to the school did i realise it was...
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Broken Communication

I am 20, my love is 25. We have always been very happy together, and been described as ‘cut from the same cloth,’ and our relationship is very sacred and we protect it dearly. Recently, he has encountered some serious problems (living situation, job etc.) that have taken a toll on him, and he has really shut himself off from me. Also, I am very easily irritated over insignificant things and lash out at...
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Nobody Likes My Boyfriend

I have known my boyfriend for seven years we dated at 14 and then again at 18. Thru the time since I was 18 these are the things that happen: he went to jail, he lived with me and my parents and eventually the two of us moved out. He also cheated on me and it seems like nothing he does me say that’s enough. I moved out from our apartment back with...
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Internal Conflict

I’m not sure how to start this. Since I was a kid I realized I had the ability to manipulate those around me. I took advantage of it and my mother and family suffered for it. I have an extremely hard time relating to others on any emotional level. I work in a place where people rely on me to a certain extent on regular life issues. Rest assured I don’t work in the...
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What Do I Do Now?

I almost don’t know where to begin. My wife and I have had a rocky relationship as of late, but it recently took a turn for the worse… a big turn for the worse. I recently had a discussion with her about my leaving. She responded by telling me that she is so disgusted with how I’ve treated my step son, who’s now 17 years old, that she would’ve kicked me out a long...
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Is There Any Hope For Me To Get Better?

I told my best friend of 12 years goodbye a couple days ago because I don’t see the need to have friends. I have no desire to be around her or anyone else. She was one of my last friends to go and I couldn’t care less. My story is very long and very (maybe?) complicated. I will make it as short as I can. My childhood was no childhood at all. I was...
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Changed after Basic Training

So Im 25 years old and I completed basic training in March. Thankfully enough I started my training really close to home so I was able to see my boyfriend/fiance on the weekends. Prior to me leaving for basic training, i remember loving nothing more than spending time with my bodyfriend. We worked together but in seperate departments, he stayed with me almost everynight, we were able to communicate our needs pretty well for...
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Should I Worry about My Husband’s Fetish?

MY HUSBAND IS A CHRISTIAN MAN AND HE HAS A STOCKING FETISH. WE ARE OPEN ABOUT IT. I WEAR THEM FOR HIM ALL THE TIME. WE HAVE VERY ACTIVE SEX LIFE AND GREAT MARRIAGE. I JUST HATE THAT HE LOOKS UP STOCKING SITES ON THE INTERNET. NOTHING DIRTY JUST WOMAN IN STOCKINGS AND SAVES CERTAIN PICS. IT IS LIKE A GAME TO HIM. MORE OF THE SEARCH THING REALLY. I AM OPEN TO LOOK...
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I Want to Kill but My Problem Seems Different than Others

I have searched the site as you recommend and I haven’t found anything like this. First off I haven’t killed anyone yet because I’m not stupid. I want to kill and not just people who have slighted me (even thought the worms deserve it) I mean people in general and I’ve been planning how, when, where and everything else you can think of, I want to feel a persons blood on me and watch...
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Erection Problems

I have been with my bf for 10 months. In that amount of time he has only been hard maybe 5 times without needing manual stimulation. We have sex at least once a day, but it’s getting so old for me to have to give him oral, hand jobs etc. for 15 mins. before he has an erection. Because soon as he gets an erection we have to hurry up and have sex because...
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Tired of Being Just Friends

For a long time now I’ve been severely depressed I’m constantly being told “lets just be friends”. At first it didnt phase me and Id think it was them not me but over time when I’ve only gotten rejections after rejection. I started to realize if they’re all saying I’m such an amazing guy but they want to be friends that they’re either lying or I’m still not good enough and it’s broken me...
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