Archives for December, 2011 - Page 4

Why am I Pushing Him Away?

I have been with my boyfriend for two years. During these two years he has became someone I love and trust and could see myself with forever. That word though “forever” scares me to death. I know he is perfect for me and he adores me. Our families click and he loves my daughter with all his heart. We are like the picture perfect little family. I cant do it though. I have started...
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Anxiety

Boyfriend Has Changed

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 2 years. We were so in love and we never fought. In July I started taking birth control pills and became anxious and depressed. we started fighting a lot and everything I guess changed. It’s been at least 5 months from then and my feelings have changed. he isn’t the same person anymore and gets mad at everything. I’m sometimes afraid to to say...
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Love Triangle Isn’t Working

12 years ago, I met a woman at work. She had a boyfriend, who also worked at our facility. I got along with both of them well. She ran into a housing issue, and since he still lived at home, I offered to rent her a room at my house. I discovered after a few months that she was “the #8221; BUT, I respected the boundary of her being with another man. That didn’t...
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Anxiety, Depression, What?

So basically, I am 17 and a senior in high school. Heres the I always stress out so much and it can be the littlest things. For example if someone doesn’t text me back within like a few hours I start to get nervous that there mad at me or something. I get afraid to ask questions because I feel like it will sound stupid, I’m ALWAYS worrying about what people think, about...
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Parents Want Me to End Relationship

i am 16 and my boyfriend is 17. We’ve been together for 8 months and i have been so happy with him. The last couple of days i got into a fight with my boyfriend and we broke up. Today my boyfriend texted me saying he wanted to get back together i told him yes but we need to take it slow. Now on to the real situation, my mother saw me cry about...
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Fetishism Causing Severe Depression and Anxiety

I’ve had a sock fetish for as long as I can remember, and up until a year ago expressed it in unhealthy and inappropriate ways that leave me guilt ridden, feeling worse than scum, and like I deserve to die. As a teenager I had an attraction to my sister’s socked feet that turned into an obsession, there were times I masturbated and smelled them while she was asleep. This also happened with a...
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Constant Lying

From S. Africa: I have a problem with constant lying. I tell myself I’m doing it for the right reasons but I’m hurting people I have been lying for a few years now. I tried to stop but I’m realising now that it’s hard because it has become like second nature. I lie when I’m put into a corner, or when I have done something that I know I shouldn’t have. I lie to...
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Relationship Anxiety

June of 2010 I met this very wonderful woman and I was at the end of my marriage and she was in a bad relationship. I owned my house and lived with my wife at the time and she as well lived with her boyfriend and they bought a house together. We started seeing each other and yes we both know it was not morally correct at the time but we could not fight...
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My First Love Has Cheated on Me

At the moment I feel quite desperate. My boyfriend / best friend of 6 years has cheated on me and I am heart broken. It is constantly on my mind, I’m not eating very well due to constant feelings of anxiety and anger, I’m not sleeping well also due to racing thoughts. I feel helpless, like this feeling will never leave me and I don’t want to live a life like that. As well...
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Cheating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now. We have broken up a few times because of trust issues. I have trust issues because of my past relationships. We broke up 3 months ago and I have fought to get him back ever since. He had told me that he wasn’t loyal to me and was cheating on my behind my back. But I truly deep down love this kid with...
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Do I Have an Eating Disorder?

i have a question, do you think i have a Eating Disorder? when i get home from school i usually take a nap so i don’t eat anything. i drink water all the time to keep from eating during the day. the most i eat is some dinner with family so they don’t assume anything is wrong with me. is there something wrong with me? A: Thank you for writing. I don’t know if...
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My Husband Is Like Dr. Jeckyll And Mr. Hyde

I love my husband. I will start by saying this. When I first met him he was the most amazing man I’d ever met. Then I started seeing his anger. He never hits me; but there is emotional abuse. As far as us being in public or with my family he is not my husband. He puts on a fake faced as he hates himself. He has told me this. He does have some...
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