Archives for November, 2011 - Page 2

Is My Boyfriend a Molester?

I’ve been in a pretty great relationship with a man for four months now who is a good friend of the family’s. I’ve known he’s had a foot fetish most of this time, but things took a drastic turn when he admitted to me that when he was 15, he used to massage the feet of his best friend’s little sister and then masturbate to the image. This went on for almost three years,...
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Depression, Anxiety, Constant Dwelling Issues, Shyness & Anger

I have suffered for 5-8 years now from a variety of issues from Depression, Anger, Anxiety, drugs, alcohol abuse , self estem issues, trust issues , relationship issues . i constantly dwell or relive daily things in my head and pick everything apart that occurred during my day. ( and do speak to myself from time to time ) unintentionally of course 90 percent of the time im a very nice shy polite allow...
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Mom Doesn’t Know I Know She’s Cheating

My issue is that a couple of months ago i realized that my mom was texting more than usual and when i would go see who she was texting she would move the phone out of my field of view so that made me even more curious, then a couple of days later i borrowed her computer to do school work and found a picture of a guy in a hotel room in his...
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My Husband Needs Help To Stop Thinking about Another Girl

My husband of 20 years has obsessive thoughts about a girl who was his friend from his past. How can he rid them? A: The first question is whether he wants to be rid of them. I’m always concerned when someone other than the person with the problem writes the letter. Is it possible he is telling you about this obsession as a way to start talking about problems in your marriage? If that’s...
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Boyfriend’s Past Sex Life Bothers Me

Hello, I have never asked anything online before but I’m having an issue that I just can’t shake. I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half and we have recently moved in together. We met at work. I love him very much and I know he loves me, things are pretty good between us. There is just one problem. I can’t get over his sexual history. For starters he...
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This Boy Is Confusing Me

I met this boy and later that night I got a message from him on fb and he basically told me he felt a connection with me and wanted to get to know me. Well it’s been over a month and he says things to me about dreams he has of me and he likes me and tells me I’m a lovely soul and a beautiful person, but he won’t do anything about it,...
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My Personality Is Gone

I am in despair right now. My name is Shane and im 17 and it feels like my personality is gone. I am depressed, and anxious right now. In groups and friends now, I am extremely akward and silent, barley saying anything at all. It feels like im treading over old ground because ive had this problem before, I went to therapy,got help, and then once I felt like the depression was gone and...
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I Think I Have Depression

I believe to have depression and anxiety issues; lately I’ve been feeling nauseous, short of breath, and fearful. I believe that I may have symptoms of depression, probably not severe but I believe that I should talk to a professional anyway, in case my situation may become worse. My problem has gradually become worse over the years. When I was younger I believe myself to be a happy, normal child, though probably just a...
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Drug Rehab for the Poor?

I am diagnosed with BPD, Bipolar Disorder, and PTSD. I also am unemployed and have a drug problem. How come all the drug rehab centers in this country seem to only cater to those who have lots of money or great health insurance? I know so many who want help or residential treatment, but due to their financial situation, can’t get the help they so desperately need. Why? A. There is no easy answer...
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