Girlfriend Committed Suicide
Q. I’m in great stress and im not willing to live. My girl friend just commited suicide a week back due to some problems in her family. I was just living for her. I’m a student studying engineering and my studies are going from bad to worse.I will not be able to full fill the expectations of my family . They don’t no about my studies going worse.I’m depressed very much and don’t know what to do.I don’t think ill get a good job with my studies . my family members always point out that they always rely on me but that is not the case they can even live without relying on me .I’m confused wether to live or not. Please help me to come out of this situation.
A. Understandably, you are under a great amount of stress. Not only did you lose a loved one in an extremely tragic manner you have the added pressure of feeling that you have to fulfill the expectations of your family. I am very sorry about your difficult situation.
I would strongly recommend that you seek help immediately. I would not advise that you try to help yourself out of this situation. You said that you feel that you “were just living for her.” This type of thinking and reaction is worrisome and indicates that you are overwhelmed and confused.
Some people feel so sad and helpless during difficult times that they incorrectly think that their situation will never improve. There are reports of people who felt similarly sad and helpless and attempted suicide to end their suffering and lived. Nearly all of those survivors who were lucky enough to have lived report how thankful they were that they did not die. They didn’t want to die; they just wanted to end their suffering. Most said they would never attempt suicide again. They also say that they realized that there are other ways to deal with extremely challenging times. Take their very wise advice and get some help.
If you are considering suicide, then you should go to the hospital immediately.
I know it is a challenging time but things can improve for you and I strongly believe that you could benefit from help and support. Suicide is not the answer. Please seek help now.
Randle, K. (2008). Girlfriend Committed Suicide. Psych Central. Retrieved on November 25, 2015, from http://psychcentral.com/ask-the-therapist/2008/10/27/girlfriend-committed-suicide/