Boyfriend joined an adult dating website

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker

Q: My boyfriend recently joined an adult dating and I found out. So I decided to take it upon myself to make up a fake profile and start talking to him. When I asked if he was in a relationship he stated no. What would be the best advise? Should I continue to talk or confront him about it?

A: Ah. I’m confused. Why would you want to stay in a relationship with someone who is still looking and is ready to cheat? The only talking I think you should do is to say “goodbye.” Be grateful he’s a dumb cheat so you didn’t waste any more time on him.

I wish you well.
Dr. Marie

Photo
Dr. Marie is licensed as both a psychologist and marriage and family counselor. She specializes in couples and family therapy and parent education. Check out her website at ParentAdvisor.net, follow her on Facebook or Twitter.

 

 

Last reviewed: By John M. Grohol, Psy.D. on 30 Jul 2008

APA Reference
Hartwell-Walker, D. (2008). Boyfriend joined an adult dating website. Psych Central. Retrieved on February 14, 2012, from http://psychcentral.com/ask-the-therapist/2008/07/30/boyfriend-joined-an-adult-dating-website/

« Ask-the-Therapist
      Index

Sexuality & Relationships


Latest Articles


Want a more immediate answer from others like you?
Sign up for an Answers account and try out our Answers service.

Subscribe to Our Weekly Newsletter



Find a Therapist


Users Online: 3661
Join Us Now!